Hello,
I’m honestly just going to rant.
It’s the end of November and I just got back from Thanksgiving Break; I’m a freshman in college going to a large California state school.
And I’m depressed as hell that I’m back here. Like, I really was not looking forward to coming back.
And I cannot tell my friends or family about this since I fought so hard to be independent at a school far away from home.
Not to be dramatic, and I’m trying to really see the light at the end of the tunnel here, but college so far has kind of sucked.
My school is not a party school, it’s always pretty lonely on campus anyway, but jeez, I wanted to experience the college lifestyle 7 hours away from home and now I’m rethinking my decision.
I have friends and all, (somewhat) and I have a great roommate, but we don’t hang out.
I’m not a loser. I’m okay at socializing, and I’ve been to some fun parties with girls on my floor.
Why am I feeling this way?
I have one friend I always hang out with, she lives on my floor, but I can tell its a forced friendship because she doesn’t really have any friends either.
I have two “friends” I go to parties with, but I have a feeling they just don’t like me at this point. (I don’t know why I feel that way; I haven’t been forced to make friends since 3rd grade)
I’ve been diagnosed with manic depression and an anxiety disorder so they are probably to blame for why I feel like my friends hate me.
I live in a big city now and I literally don’t remember the last time I went out and had a genuinely fun time, I just wish I could have made connections with people who have similar interests as me because its already almost second semester and nothing has gotten better.
Things could be worse, I know that, but days are going by so slow, and I’m counting down to my flight back home for Christmas break.
Are any other college freshmen feeling this way?