<p>I’ve also found that it helps to talk about them, like asking them what they did over the summer, or where they’re from, or what they think of the college so far. Some people (probably most people) LOVE to talk about themselves, so if you engage in a conversation about them, many will say a lot. </p>
<p>It really helps to have some kind of connection. Like if someone tells you he’s from New York City, then you potentially have a lot of ways to keep the conversation interesting.</p>
<p>If someone just gives really short answers, like yep, nope, or sort of… then it means they’re not into the conversation. Maybe they’re just not great at conversation and you should talk to someone else.</p>