I'm upset. =(

<p>I got deferred. </p>

<p>Everytime I think about it, my heart sinks. I wanted to go to Penn so badly. I know there's a chance still, but everything seems so dull and blah now.</p>

<p>It's disheartening to see years of hardwork still not get you to where you want to be, but I suppose many others are feeling the same as me.</p>

<p>Oh well....I guess I'll have to move on (although I know this won't happen anytime soon).</p>

<p>You took the words right out of my mouth.
I can’t even think about how much it hurts to be deferred, I was right there but not quite…
It sucks so much. And I was looking through all the lucky ones in the fb group, torturing myself. I don’t know how I will move on. Penn is the PERFECT place for me, I need to be there, don’t give up!!! We still have another chance.</p>

<p>OMG. About the fbook thing…same here! I looked on the 2014 group and cried. It was so horrible. I wish I could’ve been one of those lucky people. </p>

<p>I’m sure everyone who got in deserved their acceptance entirely…I just wish I was among them =(</p>

<p>Would it have been easier if UPenn rejected you instead of deferred? I know being accepted would be better but at least you still have a chance.</p>

<p>Hey guys, getting deferred then accepted in the spring is a ***** (because you get to suffer other rejections), but it’s a possibility. Speaking from experience here. Write a convincing letter as to why penn is still your top choice (even if it isn’t) in like february or something.</p>

<p>yea man I’m bummed as well… Not only because i got deferred, but also because I got 2150 (perfect math scores SAT 1 and SAT 2) and 750 bio M and another guy in a similar school in my city got 1750 SAT 1, 640 and 800 SAT 2 and got accepted</p>

<p>I mean ok with holistic judgement… but if test scores count for nothing then wth…</p>

<p>Not being worthy of even a deferral hurts. :frowning: test scores and artistic talent don’t mean anything…</p>

<p>Wow squidoop i checked up your scores, you got rejected? thats insane, I’d feel really bad too. I mean I was borderline so I was expecting a deferral, or a freak acceptance, but for you u shouldve been at worst deferred. Anyways I’m 100% sure ull end up at another great school, so goodluck :)</p>

<p>Haha, I hope so… Just sad that it definitely won’t be at Penn. :frowning: it’s weird… My essays were rushed but decent,clumsy at the very worst. No serial killer vibe or anything. I hope that this just means Penn didn’t bother to look at my art portfolio… Otherwise colleges just really don’t give a crap about art. Which is the only thing that’s remotely unique about me in the ivy pool. Bleh. Time to drag myself away from the Penn board. :(</p>

<p>my first class on Monday has my Penn-recruited ED classmate…fun.</p>

<p>“I’m sure everyone who got in deserved their acceptance entirely…”</p>

<p>complete and utter lie. At least half the Wharton class is bought in.</p>

<p>greatttt. lol that makes me feel SO great. </p>

<p>But nonetheless, I am sure there are many deserving acceptances in the pack as well. Most people applying here do work hard, I’d hope.</p>

<p>Hah rest assured, I got into Wharton but did not buy in in any way…like i could afford that lol.</p>

<p>-hardworker: gl with the regular decisions round! hope you get in :)</p>

<p>Hey, hardworker, you were trying for Huntsman right? If so, I’m in the same position as you, and was deferred (although your stats are a lot more incredible than mine). Talk to your counsellor and see if you were deferred for Huntsman or CAS, but I have a pretty strong feeling that it was Huntsman for you (for me, it was anyway).</p>

<p>Idk if this helps, but Huntsman is obviously crazy hard to get into, and when I talked to the Huntsman director, they said they don’t defer often. She said that they only deferred around 3 last year. Although it’s not an acceptance, the fact that they saw enough merit in your application to defer you rather than outright reject you is great.</p>

<p>Although you may not get into Huntsman in spring, you have a fantastic shot at CAS, because they haven’t seen your application yet. The same thing happened to a girl in my school last year: she applied to Huntsman early, got deferred, then got into CAS. I really think the same will happen for you, but if not, you’ll go to a fantastic place anyway! good luck, and hope you feel better soon! :)</p>

<p>awww thanks gilmore_fan! I really really really appreciate it. See, we are also nice on this forum…wouldn’t it be so amazing if we could all have just gotten in!</p>

<p>Oh well, things don’t always work out that way! I guess time will tell what’s supposed to happen =/ </p>

<p>Good luck to you too! I hope we meet some day :)</p>

<p>My brother was deferred ED and then accepted regular decision, which does give me a bit of hope! He graduated from Penn last year so anything is possible!!!</p>

<p>I am just trying to stay positive, even though the deferral does hurt!</p>

<p>hardworker, I hope we can both get in come April!!</p>

<p>In the meantime I must do all of my other applications and supplements, joy!</p>

<p>hi everybody!</p>

<p>this is my first post in a long time, but i wanted to stop in to share with you a few of my words. i can’t even believe i’m in the penn thread right now. but i remember how devastating college rejections can be, so i wanted to come back here. i know people tell you this all the time, but it’s so true. you will end up in a school you will grow to love. things will work out! i promise! one year ago, i too applied to the huntsman program. penn was seriously my dream college. i loved everything about it. i used to spend hours on their website dreaming about one day being a student at wharton. i could probably even memorize the website for you. i couldn’t see myself elsewhere. and so i worked hard. i had 2290 SATs, had officer positions in 6 clubs, 34 ACT, took 9 AP classes. i thought i stood a fighting chance… but alas, i was rejected ED. i remember crying for weeks. life was different when the prospect of attending the school you had dreamed about for so long was gone. not only did i now have to start my other college apps, but i felt really bitter because i really thought penn was for me. you guys are already pretty good… i couldn’t come back to cc for so long because i would seriously start crying when i saw other peoples’ acceptances. i tried to make myself fall in love with other schools, but i would keep going back to penn. i know at this time, getting into your dream college is all you think about because that was all i thought about. but one year later, you will realize that you will be happy anywhere you go. i wish i could go back in time with everything i know now. i would have saved myself a lot of tears!</p>

<p>okay, i took a quick break from studying for finals to write that. but i hope it made you feel better! i really do understand your situation, and i just want to tell you that everything will work out. you will find your place in whatever college you end up in! :slight_smile: you hear it over and over again, but it’s TRUE!!! im currently a very happy freshman in college, and though i will always have a place in my heart for penn, i know that the college i ultimately ended up in, is right for me. remember, there’s no perfect college! there’s just a college that is a perfect fit for you. i know that you think it’s penn (trust me, i thought i KNEW penn was for me), but everything will work out for the better!</p>

<p>Wow, thank you so much for that reply. Well many people have said that to me, I guess I can’t really believe it until it is official that I will not be attending Penn come Fall. </p>

<p>I do appreciate all the support I have gotten from CC, and I think it would be harder to be alone with my deferral, be being with other die hard Penn lovers it makes me feel somewhat better.</p>

<p>I feel the same way. I’m trying to stop coming to this board…but somehow, I always end up here!!! Arghhhh…sometimes life sucks, doesn’t it?</p>

<p>Would you like to share the college where you are now happy??? That might give us a good idea!</p>