<p>Is anyone willing to help me out with guy trouble?</p>
<p>I'm in love with my guy friend at my new school... The thing is that my new girl friend dated him for 7 months last year and they still have feelings for each other (I'm not sure how deep they are).</p>
<p>If anyone would be so kind/bored to help me out, please reply :]</p>
<p>Thanks!</p>
<p>Well, what I got from this is:</p>
<p>1) His ex-girlfriend isn’t a close friend of yours yet.
2) They USED to date.
3) Now he’s single.</p>
<p>Soo… go for it! =)
The worse thing that can happan is that u lose your new friend…But hey, it doesn’t seem like you are BFFs or anything…</p>
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<li>She was the first person to befriend me at this new school. She’s really nice and funny, and I’d like to be close to her… It’s hard to find good friends.</li>
<li>She says she would date him but she wants to focus on her academics right now… I think that he wants to date her?</li>
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<p>He flirts with me a lot, made two mixtapes for me the second week we knew each other, treats me differently than he treats other girls… the one thing that bothers me is that when SHE’s around, he kind of ignores me. When she’s not there, it’s completely different.</p>
<p>well…you have a big dilemma…</p>
<p>I know! It sucks… I’ve known him for about 3 weeks but it feels like I’ve known him for a while.</p>
<p>Our Romantic Moments:
<p>I have no clue if I’m reading him wrong, or what :/</p>
<p>He told me that I have a pretty face. When he first met me, he told her that I’m so sweet and have awesome sarcasm.</p>
<p>He posted sexual-hinted comments on my FB wall (along with others…)</p>
<p>He “slapped” my butt with his papers</p>
<p>He tries to surprise me by sneaking up on me…the other day, he basically sat on me while I was in the library</p>
<p>He’s done that thing where you hit the other person’s hip with your own, twice.</p>
<p>He smiles at me like we have a secret… I don’t know how to explain it. Just a knowing glance.</p>
<p>I was hanging out with him and another guy friend at night. The other guy’s parents offered to give me a ride home but HE told me to stay with him in a cute way.</p>
<p>He gave me 2 piggy-back rides</p>
<p>waaait…</p>
<p>about number 3 - you were alone with him in his bedroom at night listening to romantic (or so i imagine as I don’t know the song) music and neither of you did NOTHING??</p>
<p>I was exhausted so I lay down, and he did, too. I definitely was wishing that he would kiss me. Before that, he was playing his guitar and smirked at me and said “So, tell me about yourself”</p>
<p>He’s extremely sweet; We’d only known each other for about a week and he has known this girl for a year. I’m not sure if he still loves her or not.</p>
<p>I think that we would have both felt really wrong for doing anything. Ugh, I don’t know how to read this kid!</p>
<p>Felt wrong?? I don’t get american kids… =P</p>
<p>why didn’t you kissed him??? You can’t miss another opportunity…</p>
<p>And he sounds like a pretty sweet guy… matbe you lose a friand and gain another… and maybe you don’t lose anything… If she doesn’t want him, what right does she have to deny him to you?</p>
<p>Ha! Ha! Where are you from?</p>
<p>Because I care about my new girl friend and if he doesn’t feel the same way, our relationship will be ruined/everything will be awkward. </p>
<p>I think that I need an American guy to respond.</p>
<p>Oh, and another piece of info about him: He’s bisexual but he prefers girls.</p>
<p>I think you ask him if he likes you, or sit and wait and wait and wait.</p>
<p>If I had any of aforementioned abilities to do so, I would do such thing with a girl.</p>
<p>Brazil. Where its okay to kiss random people, haha.</p>
<p>And bisexual guys are cool. =)</p>
<p>But if you really care for this girl’s friendship and think that she would really care if you hooked up, maybe you shouldn’t…</p>
<p>I’ve been to Brazil! I love it there =)</p>
<p>Haha, yep. Ugh. It’s like torture to be around the two of them and amazing when she’s not there… I feel terribly that I feel that way.</p>
<p>MIThopeful: Wait, what aforementioned abilities ?</p>
<p>Well, what do you guys think from what I told you about our interactions? He doesn’t write on any other girl’s Facebook wall like he writes on mine. He has said “Love you” about 3 times to me. He teases me…</p>
<p>1)He definately likes you as a friend.</p>
<p>2)He may like you as more than a friend.</p>
<p>3)He may be just teasing you (doesn’t change statement 1 though…)</p>
<p>Only you (and him) can know for sure.</p>
<p>I was going to make a sugestion, but im confused now. I think having a girlfriend is too much work. I kind of try to stay away from relationships with girls, but if hes doing all those things for you he must like you. His parents let you go in his room? My mom would never ever never let me have girls in my room.</p>
<p>I went to his house, and his mom said “Welcome to ___ (name of school)” He must have told his mom about me, since she knew that I’m new.</p>
<p>I don’t know… I don’t see him talk to/spend time with any of his female friends like he does with me (except for HER)</p>
<p>His guy friend asked me out on a date. I didn’t like him but said ‘okay’. I asked HIM for help as in what to do since I didn’t want to go on a date with him… He helped me and told me something along the lines of “That’s what i’m here for”</p>
<p>Um hey. American guy here. Im really sorry if im not much help as im only an 8th grader O.o but i’ve been in these kinds of situations before. Um, as far as I can tell, he really likes you. My thoughts are that he does still have feelings for the other girl. But hes slipping away from her and leaning more towards you. So basically, hes hinting to you that if he you feel the same way (which you do), he wants you, but if not, he wont be too horribly upset because he has another fall back option. Don’t read into what I said too much- as I said before, I’m only an 8th grader. But yeah, from a guys point of view, hes not just flirting, hes seriously hinting.</p>
<p>Oh my God. Okay. So, it was his 17th birthday today and LOTS of people commented on his FB wall. He only replied to me, her and a close guy friend :]</p>
<p>He said “Thanks love!” and said he was sad that he hardly saw me today =)</p>
<p>but he posted on her wall about how her cake was so good… she must have gone to his house and brought him cake :/</p>
<p>Haha no worries! TRUST ME, when he says thanks love, you may think hes jokingly saying it. But thats only what he wants you to think. lol, he means it xD. Or at least, when i use thanks love, i want my friend to think im joking… but im not XD. Trust me, hes hinting to you. And lol, im assuming since it was his 17th birthday, hes either a junior or a senior, as are you (most likely). Boy, I feel like a moron for trying to help you. But anyways, my advice, go for it. The worst that could happen is he’ll say hes not interested, but trust me he is.</p>