<p>Happy Independence Day to all. We are now about halfway done with NSO and move-in day for new students is only 7 weeks away on Saturday, August 23, which will be a different type of Independence Day for entering freshman. So how are new students (and parents-especially parents with first child in college) foreseeing this new life experience. Has it sunk in yet? Are you looking forward to it. Are you fearful or apprehensive? Any questions for those of us who have already gone thru it? Any suggestions from those who have survived it. One thing I would like to suggest, although I realize it may be stressful for many parents, is that once you have moved in your son/daughter I would suggest leaving ASAP. Students generally do better at adjusting to college life if they can begin to meet and make new friends ASAP once they have moved in. Just my perspective. Tears on the way home for parents are perfectly appropriate and understandable. </p>
<p>Though she’s a bit nervous (“what if I don’t make any friends?”), she is looking forward to it. For me, she is our oldest child and I don’t think it has quite sunk in yet. I’m very excited for her and happy that she will get a chance to be independent. But the thought of her empty bedroom and her not being here every day…ugh. I’m looking forward to this next chapter in her life but it’s going to be quite an adjustment. And we only live 30 minutes away. I can’t imagine what kind of basketcase I’d be if she was going far away!</p>
<p>We know what you’re feeling and going through as the fall semester approaches. Two short years ago, we were going through the college jitters, wondering how our S would handle things. And, more importantly, how would we cope with him gone (we’re 70 minutes away). We’ve come to realize that kids are (more so than not) better prepared to start college than their parents. We wish you the best. UD is a wonderful university, full of many opportunities and filled with great people. </p>