<p>AFAbound:</p>
<p>"You put in all that work for nothing is what im getting"
-I don't think that I'm getting nothing. I met some great friends, I just feel now that going through West Point is not the manner in which I would be of most value to the nation.</p>
<p>"If you already knew about the military life why did you attempt to gain acceptance?"
-I knew the military life. I didn't know the West Point life. I don't feel like being pressured to change my leadership example, even though it is effective and has proven so, just because somebody disagrees with it. I don't feel like I was trying to gain acceptance, either. I was accepted, but decided that it wasn't for me. Once again, West Point is not the Army.</p>
<p>"If you already knew everything why go?"
-I THOUGHT I knew everything. I was wrong. We can never be certain about anything if we've never fully experienced it. Trust me, the Air Force Academy will be different than what you expected it to be. Its just the way things happen. In this case, however, factors unforseen by me in the past rose up and turned me away from the West Point traditions. </p>
<p>"No offense, but if you knew you weren't going to stay you took a spot from somebody that probably wanted it more."
-I actually do take offense to this one. I fully wanted to serve my nation, and still do. At the time I believed that the Army was my route of choice. Now, however, I feel that working within the CIA, FBI, or State Department will be the best. I had no intentions of stealing a spot from someone else.</p>
<p>The Air Force Academy is a vastly different place than West Point. In talking with the Zoomie thats with our company, he said that the daily hump/grind is quite a change from the more relaxed, and intellectual atmosphere of Colorado Springs. At West Point, almost all the emphasis now seems to be on shoes, rooms, APFT scores and how loud you can yell at your subordinates (my COC is being scrutinized by cadet staff because they use rewards instead of punishments as incentives, for example). Instead, I feel that officers are the brains of the army, so therefore, we should place more emphasis on education (like the other academies). Then we should have training structured of the social tact of being an officer. To be a leader, your soldiers should respect your character, not your rank. It seems that rank is now the basis of leadership, not personal skills. Pushups, pullups, and a good uniform all fall below that. My only question is, if officers of the same calibre can be produced from ROTC programs, why does it have to be like this?</p>
<p>WAMom68:</p>
<p>"Is leaving the academy something you have been considering for awhile or is this a recent thing? I have been told that many cadets go through periods of wanting to quit. Some get beyond it and choose to stay and some decide that leaving is the right thing. Either way you have to do what is right for you."
-I appreciate this. I have been considering leaving since the second week of Buckner. After seeing cadet leadership in action, the reputation West Pointers had with the Task Force instructing us, and the actions of the West Pointers within the Task Force, I got a sick feeling that I did not want to associate myself with that stigma. I hope I can get beyond it...it will save a lot of time with applications!</p>
<p>"I appreciate your candor, but at this point I dont think anything anyone says will deter my son from West Point. Right now he is getting a small taste of the suck at NMMI. Most of his complaints are regarding leadership and not the academics. Sound familiar?"
-Best of luck to your son. I have good friends that went through NMMI, and it prepared them well for the rigorous first year. The only word of advice I have for him is to keep his eyes set on the goal: being an officer in the Army. Once that goal gets hazy (not when he doesn't like the hazing, lack of privileges, or comiserating with buddies), its time to reevaluate the options. There were many times plebe year I didn't like not being able to leave or cupping my hands, but I still wanted to be an officer.</p>
<p>Once again, these are just my feelings...to each their own. Some love it, others its not for them. I feel that West Point is a great opportunity, and those who are selected and feel that it is the right path for them should take it, just as much as Johns Hopkins is for a person who wants to be a doctor, or Harvard for a lawyer. If you don't want the end result, its not for you. </p>
<p><em>Gets off soapbox</em></p>