<p>I thought I understood exactly what Liz was asking. It's not about whether you have a goal or not, it's do you like thinking and learning for their own sake, apart from your goal. So, of course someone like your son, Marite, would be included in that group; I'd have thought that was self-evident.</p>
<p>My D went to a high school with a boy whose aim, since young, was to get rich. He discovered a bent for computer science at the applied level, and went to an Ivy where he could study that. He's now, having graduated in May, living in NY, making as much money as his lawyer father. He, to me, has always epitomized the non-intellectual. Learning was a means for him, not an end.</p>
<p>I feel this when I read a lot of posts by students on this board and others. What's the best way to get into med school, how do I get a job in I-banking, what fields pay the most? And this is not to say that all doctors, bankers, etc, are not interested in learning for its own sake, just that with some kids, that seems clearly to be the case.</p>
<p>(and my D and I, who both transfered out of non-stimulating atmospheres, both would question the pockets-of-likeminded-peers-everywhere theory. It didn't feel that way to either of us.)</p>
<p>I also think this atmosphere can co-exist with major sports programs and frats--see my above comments on Michigan.</p>
<p>So, yeah, I think I get what you're saying, Liz.</p>