Interracial dating and relationships

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<p>Exactly my point.</p>

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<p>She’s okay. GAWD!</p>

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<p>Not entirely; it’s also about how you view interracial dating.</p>

<p>I’d imagine that you wouldn’t view it very favorably in your case if an individual with Bantu migrant traits were involved.</p>

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<p>“Still… If you don’t think Beyonce is attractive, then you might have some problems.”</p>

<p>You’re a girl. Unless you’re a lesbian, you’re probably not a good judge.</p>

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<p>^ Who is a good judge?
People have varying opinions about who is attractive.
My friend might think somebody is rugged hot but I might think he’s average and my other friend might say he’s fugly.</p>

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<p>A guy is a better judge of the attractiveness of a girl, and vice-versa.</p>

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<p>ApatheticLove–hoe about Ashanti? I just remembered because i was listening to one of her songs.</p>

<p>I think she’s 100% black. She’s really pretty too:</p>

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<p>btw, I’m a completely straight female so I might not be the best judge of who’s attractive and who’s not :/</p>

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<p>You are both incorrect with regard to females. There is a well-established biological basis for female attractiveness. Male attractiveness, on the other hand, is dependent upon a multitude of factors.</p>

<p>Someone who thinks Beyonce is not attractive definitely has some problems, either mental or physical. Hips? Check. Chest? Check. Facial symmetry? Check. Nice skin (at least apparently)? Check. Some other things I’m too tired to list? Check.</p>

<p>C’mon, get off it. If you don’t like black women, that’s one thing, but to say that some of the most gorgeous women alive are not attractive is simply ridiculous, especially when you know you’d smash.</p>

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<p>^You didn’t say anything which refuted me. And your “well-established biological basis for female attractiveness” is a guideline, not a metric, don’t present it as such.</p>

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<p>Beyonce is attractive, that’s a well known fact.</p>

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<p>I’ve found that women in general are actually good judges of female attractiveness. I mean, girls judge each other all the time. Plus, you know, the various theories on why most women are at least slightly bisexual [but let’s please not let this devolve into food metaphors].</p>

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<p>“I’ve found that women in general are actually good judges of female attractiveness.”</p>

<p>Females may be good at judging what you find attractive in a female, because you’re a female. But I suppose you’ve just made me admit a flaw in my logic.</p>

<p>Okay, let me restate. Guy’s are much better at judging what females are attractive to other guys than girls, and vice-versa.</p>

<p>Personally, I think that lighter hair than skin thing is disgusting. I also hate it on blond girls who are tan.</p>

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<p>One’s gender does not indicate whether or not one is capable of being a judge of attractiveness, as there are already a set of “guidelines,” as you so put it, that denote attractiveness. It is not necessary for someone to be male for them to observe the high level of symmetry in a female’s face and a number of corresponding traits that may make them attractive.</p>

<p>Quite frankly, all I’m saying here is that attractiveness is not arbitrary but has a biological basis.</p>

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<p>This is a far more reasonable point.</p>

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<p>^^ I agree about the hair thing. See the Hogans on the blonde hair/tan skin. EWW.</p>

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<p>Exactly. In fact, I think females judge beauty in other females better than males judge attractiveness in other males. Maybe it’s something that hints at homophobia, but whatever.</p>

<p>^lol yeah. I always internally wince upon seeing a tan blonde with the hair<skin lightness thing.</p>

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<p>Yeah that’s probably it. It’s quite nasty</p>

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<p>LOL at this: [How</a> Your Race Affects The Messages You Get OkTrends](<a href=“http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-race-affects-whether-people-write-you-back/]How”>http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-race-affects-whether-people-write-you-back/)</p>

<p>It basically states how a lot of Black guys have Asian fetishes, but Asian girls are unlikely to reciprocate. It also generally seems that Black men, and Indian guys get the most screwed over. Also that black women are apparently more desperate, but hardly anyone likes the black females. And everyone likes the white guys, but they don’t like anyone that much, besides Middle-Eastern females. Just interesting, not necessarily true.</p>

<p>Note: I had a tendency to replace “responded” with “like”, because it seems to obvious implication, however this is not fact.</p>

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<p>According to this chart: <a href=“http://cdn.okcimg.com/blog/race_affects/Reply-By-Race-Male.png[/url]”>http://cdn.okcimg.com/blog/race_affects/Reply-By-Race-Male.png&lt;/a&gt; Asian females are more likely to respond to White males than Asian? Awesome!</p>

<p>I have that whole “middle eastern” look though… Lame.</p>

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<p>to answer the original question of this thread I approve of interracial dating
and I don’t really have preferences I’ve found myself attracted to people of different races.</p>

<p>Also, going through this thread has kind of shown me that females my race get virtually no love :confused: why are black women perceived as unattractive?</p>

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<p>^ I don’t know why… Almost ****es me off.</p>