Interracial dating

<p>Why do people think interracial dating is wrong? Reply</p>

<p>Because of ignorance. Some of the same people that also think gay people are in the wrong.</p>

<p>I'm all for interacial dating. I can't see anything wrong with it. Just because we look different on the outside doesn't mean we differ on the inside.</p>

<p>I don't think it's wrong. =/ I think it's because of tradition, war, something happened to one's family so one can't date with the person because of their race. Basically I think they will feel hatred, and terrible. That's all. I think...</p>

<p>well i don't disagree unless they have different cultural context which means 'assimilation' is incomplete. It is not wrong to marry or even date a person from a different race. But personally I wouldn only marry a girl that is korean just because i want to uphold all my traditions. For dating I wouldn't mind but i would have to end the relationship before it gets too serious to the point i have to consider marriage.</p>

<p>imiracle911, but what if you fall in love with someone of a different race? You can control who you marry but you can't control who you are going to fall in love with.</p>

<p>well love is a little different from marriage. I do not mind the love part but i will have to terminate the relationship for my and her own good. I don't expect girls here to follow the korean tradition of preparing ceremonies for your ancestors. I want my wife to focus on our children's education. Hopefully i could compromise but my conservative self just can not accept a wife that is not korean even if that seems iillogical.</p>

<p>well I just want my future wife to be happy. Such control freaks...no wonder a lot of you do not have success with members of the opposite sex.</p>

<p>it's stupidity. eventually society will have to get over it, it's just a slow process. Personally, I'm white and I've never dated a white guy before.</p>

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well i don't disagree unless they have different cultural context which means 'assimilation' is incomplete. It is not wrong to marry or even date a person from a different race. But personally I wouldn only marry a girl that is korean just because i want to uphold all my traditions. For dating I wouldn't mind but i would have to end the relationship before it gets too serious to the point i have to consider marriage.

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Personally, I don't really see the point of dating someone you have already made up your mind about not marrying. It wastes your time (people you potentially might be interested in think you're taken) and it wastes her time; IMO, it kind of seems like lying to her.</p>

<p>Yeah, we CC'ers have to lead the next generation of adults to see past the skin color, the race, etc. to see the flower blooming on the inside.</p>

<p>ok i'm not a racist and i want to clarify that. Why is trying to adhere to your tradition being a control freak? Did I say I was going to enforce them ? No I said I would find someone that would adhere to my the tradition as I do. You guys might find it weird but hey it's not stupid. I just want to keep my tradition and cultural identity.</p>

<p>imiracle911: I think people are confused why you would even bother dating a non-Korean if you know that you will break up them. People just think you are wasting her time and your time.</p>

<p>well that would be just for the experience. Most people never think about marriage while they're dating until they reach a serious point. I don't think I could keep the relationship for that long anyways.</p>

<p>i'm white, and i don't think i'd date a black guy, just b/c i'm not attracted to them and the way most of them are/act.</p>

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i'm white, and i don't think i'd date a black guy, just b/c i'm not attracted to them and the way most of them are/act

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I feel the same way you do about dating black girls. I'm just not attracted...maybe it's just me.</p>

<p>Let me ask man on fire and ms. rose a quick question;how are black people?</p>

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Personally, I don't really see the point of dating someone you have already made up your mind about not marrying. It wastes your time

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Have you not heard about sex? You are with them for the love and the sex. Not everything is for marriage, you know? Atleast at some people's principles.</p>

<p>Inter-racial relationships aren't wrong. Just looked down apon by a lot of people. Its not ignorance, stupid. Its called trying to keep your your race pure or trying to keep your culture. Maybe that's stupid, but I don't see the ignorance. </p>

<p>It doesn't matter if you love them or not. There's no "in love" test to take before marriage. People marry for money and what not. Or people marry someone they just like, but not "so madly in love" with. I don't know if they are as happy.</p>

<p>Heres another question. How do u feel about dating someone of a different religion. Christian with a Wicca (or whatever it is). Jewish with Christianity.</p>

<p>That could cause some problem, especially if you plan on having a child.</p>