<p>It depends what you're interviewing for.
Here are my thoughts from my experience on both sides of the table...</p>
<p>1) How do you rate yourself from 1-10?
This is too vague -- in what sense? The answer should show confidence <em>and</em> teachability</p>
<p>2) What are your strengths and weaknesses?
strengths: things that apply to the job (i.e., leadership, communication skills, relevant skills, etc.)
weaknesses: it gets <em>really</em> muddy here, because you need to read your interviewer and know the job <em>really</em> well. For example, if you're applying for a technical type of job, you probably want to demonstrate that you tend to put work ahead of everything else or are an "over-achiever" BUT if the job you want is more people-oriented (i.e., on campus leadership -- RA, orientation leader, admissions intern, ASB, etc.; or social work, therapy, etc. internships), then trying to "hide" your weaknesses will likely backfire. For example, when I interviewed people for a student mentoring position, one of my mentors told me to ask people "their greatest weakness" and said that if anyone tries to make up a weakness that's really a strength, I shouldn't even look any further at them (because I wanted an approachable staff) -- just some thoughts on the "conventional wisdom"</p>
<p>3) How would you react IF we told you your interview was going badly?
Show confidence. This is a trick question to see how people do under pressure. I almost used this question in my interviews for staff, but one of old staff struck it down as too harsh (even with the if -- it tends to intimidate candidates...).</p>
<p>4) Tell me about yourself.
DO NOT talk about demographics (i.e., NOT "My name is Mike and I am a senior at APU, studying commercial music and counseling psychology... bla bla bla...")
Instead, you SHOULD have a sort of 1-2 minute presentation prepared to talk about yourself as far as why you are NEEDED in this organization. This is when you get to shine and is usually the first question of an interview. It will usually come as either "tell me about yourself" or sometimes more directly as "why do you want this position" or "what makes you qualified for this position" (the 2nd and 3rd are what "tell me about yourself" is REALLY asking)</p>
<p>As far as the other stuff, it's kind of led by the interviewer. More of a feel thing, but generally you should get there no more than 10 minutes before the interview and do your best to collect any pertinent information about the organization while there (it may help you answer the interviewer's questions in a way that shows you are passionate about their organization). The interviewer will do the hand-shaking, etc.--just follow their cues. Being a good interviewee (as well as being a good interviewer) is all about having good social sensitivity. If you're not socially sensitive, learn to be that way, because it will help you throughout life!</p>
<p>Probably the most common mistake people make in general is not being prepared for an interview. While you don't want to over-analyze the interview, you DO want to be prepared! There are dozens of books and websites out there to help you prepare for interviews.
Another common mistake is closely related -- not knowing the job and its requirements! If you don't really understand the requirements of a job, you may very well misrepresent yourself and make yourself look like a bad fit unnecessarily because you presented the wrong characteristics! While interviewers don't necessarily have one specific set of things in mind they want in a new employee, they probably have a good idea of what will or will not work and are likely forming an image of what that employee might look like based on various interviewees -- this is especially true if you are interviewing for job that is either new or has been failed in the past (i.e., you are replacing someone who was transferred, demoted, fired, etc. because they could not fulfill the needs of the position)</p>