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Okay so my parents make about $90k a year and most net price calculators have the EFC at $12k and, if a school pledges to meet 100% of financial aid, my cost being about $15k a year. However, my parents say that there is no way they could even meet $12k a year and say that $8k is a stretch. So, they are making me take the rest out in loans,
even though colleges say that I shouldn’t have to have loans at all.
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No, that’s not what the colleges are saying. They’re saying that THEY won’t give you loans, but they’re not saying that you shouldn’t have any. One reason that they arent’ giving you loans is because they know that sometimes parents in your income bracket can’t pay all of their EFC so the student is able to borrow $5500 to help cover.
If you end up with a net cost of $12k-15k per year, then some of that is “fluff” and you can reduce that by being frugal…buying used books, or renting text books…and minimizing personal spending. When you move into your dorm, bring enough budget-purchased bulk shampoo and other toiletries to last a year so you’re not buying at higher prices at a school store.
You can reduce your family contribution by $1k or more by being economical.
You can also work/save over the summer to add $2k-3k towards those costs.
I totally understand why your family would have a hard time coming up with about $800 a month to put towards college. They probably do not have a lot of extra money left over each month. Talk to them about that. $8k would mean they would be paying $800 a month for 10 months thru the school’s payment plan. If that’s not doable, then what really is? When parents look at this from a “per month” perspective, they can often more reasonably figure what they really can contribute.
So, assume that they really can only contribute $500 a month for 10 months…$5k per year. (Remind them that they can get the tuition tax credit which I think is around $2k per year, so that will help)
$5500 from student loan
$5000 from parents
$2500 from summer work/savings
There’s $12,500…
Would you have to fly to your school or would your parents drive you?