<p>groceries will still be expensive in NJ or the boroughs. there might be that one magical farmer’s market that has some cheap groceries, but what you’d spend on public transit to get there might outweigh the savings. maybe not, though.</p>
<p>going to graduate school and working part time will only lengthen the time it takes for you to complete your degree, requiring you to take more loans out for the subsequent year(s) you’ve added to your studies. it’s doable but i would advise against it.</p>
<p>you need AT LEAST 20K, before taxes, to survive in the new york area. even outside manhattan, and especially if you plan on paying back your loans while you’re in grad school. living in a studio apartment with a roommate would be impossible, even if you were sharing a bed. the studios in your price range are 250 sq ft. measure it out with a measuring tape. that is not livable for two people. some would say it’s not livable for one, but i think a person who can space-plan can manage it.</p>
<p>if your roommate is making 50-55K a year and is paying for most of the rent, and you’re only kicking in about $800/month (you could potentially find a 2 bed place for $1600-2000/month, but it would have no living room and no laundry in the building. it would be a kitchen and two small bedrooms and nothing else), you’d have to make sure your roomie is okay with her basically carrying the rent for both of you. if you’re not in a relationship with each other, she may resent that she’s sinking her finances into supporting you through grad school. i know i would. even a 50K salary doesn’t go too far in manhattan. i said two bedrooms for $1600-2000 assuming that your share of the rent would somehow be comparable to hers. you can find nicer two beds in the $2500 range (you have to search for them, though… unless you dig around yourself for places, even $2500 for a nice two-bedroom would be hard to come across), but then she’s carrying much more of the rent.</p>
<p>also, she doesn’t have the job yet. don’t assume she can find a high paying one in manhattan, especially in international business, with just a BA. there are tons of hedge fund managers with a load of experience and they’re out of work right now. they’d be getting those jobs first.</p>
<p>you can take 20K a year and live off of it. you’d need to be really thifty about renting a place for about $1100/month, including your utilities (likely in a borough… studios in manhattan for $1100/month are not unheard of, especially through columbia, but they don’t grow on trees either). you’d have $566/month to live off of. metropasses, which would be a must for you, are around $70/month, so lets be generous and say that leaves you with $500/month. that will have to cover anything not included in your rent (a phone, cable? internet? coin laundry?). with $500/month, you’ve got $16/day to live off of. that will be your food. you won’t have cash for a movie, you won’t be able to go to a bar or a concert, you won’t be able to buy clothing, you certainly won’t have any savings let alone be able to pay off your loans yourself, and you’ll have to count your pennies. it can be done but it would suck. you’ll need to buy your books, too, and that can run you hundreds, even thousands of dollars, depending on your program, at the beginning of the semester. photocopying, the great hidden expense of grad school, could really destroy your monthly budget. if your department lets you photocopy for free, do it!</p>
<p>NYU and columbia humanities students get $22,000/yr from their stipends. the schools seem to think it’s possible to live off this amount provided you have a roommate. and it is. you just have to be incredibly frugal. $30,000 in loans could let you live with a bit of breathing room. you won’t be counting your pennies and you could afford to go out once a week, maybe. you wouldn’t need any more than that if you’re smart with your money. you could realistically take out $24K or $25K in loans per year and survive. $500 is the absolute minimum you’d need in cash left over after rent to really live in manhattan or brooklyn. subway fare adds up, groceries add up, and it would be nice to go out once a month.</p>
<p>jersey’s a lot cheaper. a lot. you can get a two bedroom apartment in jersey city for $1000/month. it’s a short commute to manhattan and it saves you a ton on rent. that is definitely an option and $20K/yr in loans would do you well there. there are some cheap-ish options, i don’t want it to sound like there aren’t, but it’s extremely difficult to find anything in manhattan or brooklyn that is doable on 20K/yr, and in other neighbourhoods you’ll have to start worrying about commuting time, boredom, and security.</p>