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<p>That might be a larger context than you (her employer) could ever provide her, though. H and I were just talking about the fact that among his employees (=doctor’s office, most not educated except for the nurses) there just isn’t a cultural expectation that after hs, you strive for a good college experience. Some of his employees, like your friend, are smart-as-a-whip but never had any expectations placed on them that college is where you go after high school. Many of them have gone to the local comm college, and good for them in doing so, but the kind of experience that my kids are having at their elite university / LAC is simply and completely foreign to their way of thinking and how they were brought up.</p>