@ohiovalley16 YES. A thousand times YES.
When I was first looking at colleges, I had an attitude not at all unlike your daughter’s. Not particularly because I was judgemental about the South, but more because I am a queer incredibly liberal Democrat born and raised in LA! I mean this was about self-preservation, haha! Plus, I knew that I wanted college to be a time for intellectual growth from being surrounded by diverse people.
I applied to UA and the CBH research program for a financial safety. I never expected to like it…AT ALL. When I mentioned the schools I was applying to or accepted at, I always left it till the end, when I would add “Alabama…” in a hushed, almost ashamed tone. I didn’t want to get in an argument with someome about how I of all people could possibly be considering going THERE.
When I was on the way to the airport with my mom for the CBH interview weekend (I was only convinced to even get this far because it would be free) I was actually dreading going. I didn’t even want to spend a weekend with those people! (Yes that is actually what I called them.) But once I was there, I fell in love with the people there, who came from all around the country and who had several debates about politics and science while I was there. Unlike a small Northeast LAC, like Kenyon or Smith, both of which I also loved and was accepted to, here the political spectrum ranged from Tea Party to Libertarian to Moderate to Democrat to me. (Am I the most liberal in CBH? Yeah, probably, but everyone is incredibly respectful and the discussions are WONDERFUL.)
I mainly discuss CBH because that is what led me to this change in perspective and it is my main social group. However there are other groups like the Alabama College Democrats (which is FANTASTIC and has great social events…am I biased because I’m on the social committee?), the Feminist Alliance (not in it but I’ve heard good things), SPECTRUM, the Roosevelt Institute, Mallet, Blount, and a few environmental and humanitarian aid groups.
Tuscaloosa itself is probably more conservative than campus, but it truly is a college town. Its congressional district is the one blue haven in this honestly red state (props to our fantastic Congresswoman Terri Sewell!). However I would ask your daughter to rethink the vision of Alabama that’s portrayed in the media today. 30% of Alabamans voted Democratic in the last midterm elections. The state has come so far in the last 50 years, and yet of course news coverage prefers to focus on the people who fight change rather than those who are making it every day. My friend Colin has been performing same-sex marriages at the Courthouse ever since the recent SCOTUS decisipn. UA has more African-American students tham any other university in America (someone please correct me if this has changed) and lots of international students. I am surrounded by more true diversity of thought and ethnicity than I ever was in my “diverse” suburb of Los Angeles.
If your daughter chose to rush a sorority, she would likely experience much more of a traditional Southern college feel. However, if she came with an open mind about finding her place, gaining an understanding of the South and the diversity within it, and excitement about all the programs and clubs Alabama offers, I have no doubt she could make Tuscaloosa her second home as I have.
I was the first person from my high school to ever go to UA and this year after hearing how happy I am we have two more coming! This is truly a school on the rise.
I would love to speak with your daughter about my experiences and her concerns, if she is willing. I would also be happy to show her around if you are able to come visit. Good luck to her and Roll Tide! (No, my decision had NOTHING to do with foptball.)