Is college really worth going to? PLEase help

Certain fields require a college education (medical, law, engineering, accounting / finance, nursing, etc.). It really depends on what you want to do. A major component to that is you likely don’t know what you want to do (as studies show that changes several times over the course of a life). Perhaps the biggest advantage of a college education is it keeps many doors open along the way. Another way of saying that is not having a college degree will close many doors!

I have two kids, very different. One is a business major at a prestigious university and will likely track to a great job in accounting or consulting and go from there. He’s a future business leader and would not be able to get there (unless he invented something like Facebook - very rare!) without college and, most likely, grad school.

My other is a performing artist who wants to make it on Broadway. She would like to pursue a BFA (fine arts) degree but clearly understands that directors don’t care where or if she attends. In her world, everything’s about the audition. However, a great BFA program will provide excellent training with other excellent actors to improve and refine her skills. Almost like a trade school. She has told me many times that if she doesn’t get accepted to an “audition in” BFA program, then she won’t go to college and just move to NYC and audition full time. I kind of like the idea of a “Plan B” just in case.

Trade schools are great if you really are interested in the trade. Many of them will help you obtain a good job in that trade.

If all of this is very fuzzy, consider taking classes at a community college. Fairly inexpensive way to explore certain topics to gauge your interest. Would dramatically lower the overall cost of a 4 yr degree. I think more kids should do this if they are searching for that passion.

What you don’t want to do is spend a ton of money on college, graduate (regardless of major), and still not know what you want to do. I have some relatives in that situation. Yes, they got educated (that’s a good thing) but they have menial jobs that don’t require a degree and no path to a different situation. Several years out of college, you could say that they wasted time and money. Some of that has to do with not being forced to support themselves as their parents have kept them on the payroll.

There are certainly good trades one can go into without going to college. Plumbers and electricians tend to make a reasonable living for themselves. College is not for everyone. It’s a matter of passion, ambition, and choice. It’s not about college or no college. It’s about learning a trade and becoming skilled at it. I went to college, but I have no skill in putting in hardwood floors. I hired a professional for that. It wasn’t cheap, but he makes a living exactly the same way I do.

I am taking classes at my local community college and loving it. Cheap, supportive and they have lots of career options. Health care, computers, welding, electrical - all kinds of things. At that price point you could work for a few years and then change careers and still not feel like you wasted money. I think it is a great place for someone who is a bit unsure about what they want.

Don’t rule out trade school. Whatever you do, don’t end your education after high school. You will have a lot more options and be more likely to make a good living if you go to college or learn a skilled trade, such as carpentry, cooking, auto mechanics, etc.

If you do get a bachelor’s degree, you will be worth more on the market even if you aren’t specifically using your degree. My daughter graduated last spring and is taking a year off to work before starting grad school in September. She tutors high school kids, but her main rent-paying job is at a clothing boutique. She had no retail experience, but her boss pays her more than the other employees simply because she has a bachelor’s degree and the organizational skills that go along with it. One of her housemates dropped out of college after a year, and even though she has a very demanding job as a nurse’s aide, makes less money.

Education pays.

Depends on your hopes, goals, ability, effort, ability to pay, interests, etc.

There are a ton of options out there. And you could always go to college later in life as well.