I’ve been put in a very tough scenario and I am being tugged back and forth in between decisions. Here’s the deal:
Accepted to: UC Davis, UC San Diego, UC Santa Barbara, USC, University of Florida, and Florida State University
Wait-listed by: UCLA and UC Berkeley
Waiting on: Stanford
Major: Computer Engineer / Computer Science
It’s always been my dream to go to college in California and live there happily ever after. I tried harder than anyone I know in high school, balancing a total of 13 AP classes and 3 Varsity sports throughout the past 4 years and have gotten straight A’s (my SAT scores are OK). My point is that it has been an absolute grind. I’ve put in countless hours of work in hopes of attending one of the prestigious UCs.
However, as decisions are coming in and I have yet to really receive any scholarship money, I am starting to realize the insane cost of Out-of-State tuition to any UC. As a result, I (and especially my parents) am starting to see that I may just have to fall back to UF, where I would have in-state tuition and a little bit of scholarship money. Financially this would make more sense, also considering the fact that UF is still a well respected university…
But my ego gets in the way a bit as I find it hard to allow myself to go to some state school (UF) that has admitted thousands of other kids who didn’t do a fraction of what I had to go through in high school. Basically what I am saying is I tried WAY too hard to end up at UF. If I knew I was bound to go there, I could have lightened up my rigorous schedule significantly.
Now that my sob story is out of the way here is some important info:
My parents have an income of around $200k-$250k a year.
They are willing to pay around the same amount of money that they paid for my older brother’s college which was about $60k total. Ideally I could probably get them to pay $70k for me, but not much more.
With this being said, I would be able to attend UF and come out completely debt free. Paid for. Done.
For any UC school OOS tuition is around $50k-$55k a YEAR. So we are looking at around $200k for my undergrad.
Lets say my parents pay $70k, so now I’m at $130k for my undergrad at a UC, which will have to be paid through student loans.
$130k in student loans? Sounds pretty bad to me, but I’m just an 18 yr old. Is it realistic that I could pay off that debt? Is it worth it? Will my life be ruined? Obviously I will end up paying way more than $130k in the long run due to interest rates, but I don’t know how to accurately figure that out. It would depend on how quickly I can start paying it off I guess.
I hear two sides of the story:
- That kind of debt will ruin your 20s, if not your 30s as well. You will regret it forever. UF is a good school, just go there. You can always go to Cali after college, etc. My parents are very much on this bandwagon.
- The experience, education, network/connections (especially for CS major) are totally worth it. You will be able to get a very good job as a result and then will be able to pay off the debt relatively quickly. You will regret turning down this opportunity, etc.
I don’t want to have any regrets. I don’t want to end up being in my 20s, in a crappy apartment in Cali with creditors chasing me, wishing that I just stayed in-state.
But I also really don’t want to go through the rest of my life speculating the “what-if’s” and the “I-should-have’s” of my life, wishing that I took a leap of faith over to California and went to my dream college.
My college rankings go like this:
- Berkeley
- UCLA
- UCSB
- USC
- UCD
- UCSD
- UF
- FSU
- I know I’m not gonna get into Stanford lol
Note - I did get wait-listed by UCLA and Berkeley, but for theoretical purposes lets say I end up being admitted.
Obviously some UCs are more “worth it” than others. I am primarily concerned with Berkeley, then UCLA, UCSB, and USC; but would rather go to any Cali school than stay in-state (Florida). I am confident that even at Berkeley I will be able to succeed and do well, so I’m not worried about that.
I was also wondering if there are scholarship opportunities (or things of that nature) that can be taken up once you get to one of these schools (ie. Berkeley) in order to lessen the amount I have to take out in loans. I know that getting Cali residency for tuition purposes is virtually impossible for me.
So… what should I do? what should I consider? I know there is no straight forward answer I guess, but I need points of view. I respect my parents’ advice but think they are very biased. Elaborate feedback is very appreciated. I’m trying to figure out the rest of my life. Thanks to everyone in advanced!