<p>friend says "If you don't know what you're going to do yet, she said, then you might as well play it safe and continue onto grad school." My take is your friend doesn't understand how people get hired out of college for jobs or how they get promoted. Ask her to explain the process to you, the way she thinks it works. </p>
<p>I think you'll find her story interesting. And I'll bet it will ignore the crucial role internships play in getting that first job. It will not talk about the importance of your interviewing skills. It will give no role to mentorship, to the role your boss plays, to your work habits and perception others hold of you, to the connections you make while working (eg. networking). It will not talk about the importance of a zeal for your work, how your attitude affects how others see you and whether people want you on their project teams. Heck, she won't even mention project teams, the roles junior and senior people play in them, the importance of delivering more than is expected. And so on.</p>
<p>For that matter, what grad degree does she have in mind? Does she think a MA, any MA, is ok? Does she know that the top business schools won't look at you without 3-5 years of good experience after college?</p>
<p>I'm not trying to slam your friend, BTW. Its just that many HS students are uninformed about how the career world works, about how you get into that first job and how you rise after it. For some jobs, sure, an MBA or MA is crucial. For others it helps, and for probably most it doesn't matter. </p>
<p>HS students live in a particular world, and like all of us they project their world onto the other worlds they see. (As an aside, this is one of the strongest reasons to learn a foreign language and study abroad -- you'll discover first-hand that the way we do things here in the USA, the things you take for granted and don't even think of as choices, are often decided differently elsewhere. Everyone who studies abroad describes it as eye-opening). In the HS world everything is driven by credentials. Your teachers have one to get a job. You get to a higher grade by passing the lower one, and you get into college based largely on your gpa and scores (and with a HS diploma). </p>
<p>In the HS world almost everything is based on credentials, so its easy to jump to the conclusion that's the way the rest of the world works, and the key to career advancement is to have better credentials than the other people. After all, thats what gets you into a top college, so its natural to project it farther along. Farther along, unfortunately, than it is valid.</p>
<p>So when she tells you there is "basically no other route to take" she is revealing her ignorance of life in the working world, of what it takes to get hired and promoted. Follow this advice at your peril!</p>