Is Hazing More Common than We Think?

<p>This story by Stacy Teicher Khadaroo in * The Christian Science Monitor* focuses on last month's tragic death of a Florida A&M University band member:</p>

<p>Death</a> by hazing? Why even tragic FAMU case won't end such rituals. - CSMonitor.com</p>

<p>But the article also suggests that, despite widespread laws against it, hazing still continues on many campuses and commonly goes unreported. According to a professor quoted in the story, "Victims often accept that it’s just the price they have to pay for being part of something special, and they often say it was worth it ... "</p>

<p>But I also believe that many students don't fully understand what "hazing" is. Granted, when you're punching someone until he's vomiting or lifeless, you've got to realize you're doing something wrong. But often hazing--at least in its initial stages--falls into a gray area. Some of the taunting and other rituals that go on aren't labeled as hazing by either the perpetrators or their victims. I think that parents need to help their middle- and high-school-aged children distinguish between joking and hazing. Sometimes the line that separates the two can be fine, but it's important for students ... especially younger ones ... to recognize when someone has crossed it.</p>

<p>The article “suggests” it still continues? Ha. It’s entrenched. Do you think making rookie pitchers in Major League Baseball carry little girl backpacks is the only hazing that occurs there? You would be wrong. And whether a college student understands hazing makes no difference. If they report it, they will be ostracized and/or won’t be able to continue in the organization they want to be in due to either not being able to continue because of bad feelings there or because the organization will be disbanded (as fraternities are). The only way to stop it is draconian measures such as undercover investigations and punishments starting at expulsion.</p>