<p>Not that I was trying, but the situation was I ended up doing only half of #10... meaning, it didn't go up to the "series of bad decisions leading to a great time" point. Let's just say it was only ever so awkward after. He's in my chem lecture/discussion and while we haven't had a chance to talk yet since, it isn't an easy atmosphere between.</p>
<p>We shall see in the next day or so. :|</p>
<p>yes and thats why I won't do what was suggested in post #10
have I seriously pushed him away?</p>
<p>The only reason things should be awkward is if one or both people have this idea that hooking up or sex or whatever outside of a relationship is somehow wrong. If you can get over the idea and accept that it's ok to express yourself sexually (ie, grow up) you should be fine.</p>
<p>Yea, good plan lucyS.</p>
<p>You won't know until you approach him, I say.</p>
<p>half_baked: :s Easier said than done. I'm very new to the relationship frontier (never even dated before, much less hooked up or anything else).</p>
<p>you probably haven't totally pushed him away, but you need to control two things- drinking and anger, and those together, pretty scary stuff</p>
<p>humble pie never killed anyone, and you can just talk to him, with no pressure, kind of like starting over, you both giving each other another chance....</p>
<p>think about it this was, if HE had acted that way toward YOU, drunken accusations in a bar....would that be attactive?</p>
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<p>I agree with you, but only to an extent. It is not 'wrong', but it can be appropriate. A hammer solves some problems, but you are in trouble if you try to solve all problems with a hammer.</p>
<p>The "series of bad decisions leading to a good time" approach is the absolute truth. Probably 30% of OU (Oklahoma) students do that every weekend. (I try to fit in a mid-week outing if I can)</p>
<p>what if I told you my relationship with him is professional and if anything happened and people knew about it, I could get into a lot of trouble</p>
<p>post #10 = most entertaining thing ive read all day.</p>