is it better to love or to be loved?

<p>would you rather be incapable of loving anyone, or have nobody who loves you?</p>

<p>it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all</p>

<p>True Dat!!!</p>

<p>nuh-uh;
Shameless, but I’d rather not know about the agony, than endure the pain for my gain…</p>

<p>I’d rather be loved, than I miss/ pain for someone day & night.</p>

<p>if it were the case of one person, like:</p>

<p>would you rather have unrequited love for someone, or be the object of it?</p>

<p>i’d say the former. 'cause at least you could get pleasure out of being with them – out of the small things they say & do. whereas in the latter case, you just… wouldn’t care. </p>

<p>if it’s in general, though, it gets harder. 'cause it’d be such a blow to me ego to never be loved – and to be incapable of love but receive it would be flattering. in the end, though, i’d probably make the same choice as i would for the one-person situation. i’d rather feel that high of love – even unreturned love – than never feel anything like it.</p>

<p>I would rather be loved because you would have to deal with the constant torture versus no torture. No contest.</p>

<p>but sometimes pain is enjoyable. esp when you rape the other person
jk</p>

<p>oooh perhaps i’m a bit of a masochist & that plays a part in my decisionnn</p>

<p>I’d rather be loved and not know how to love. Why would I want to torture myself with unrequited love for someone? It would make me miserable. </p>

<p>Also take into account, having nobody who loves you would mean your family wouldn’t love you anymore either. I’d rather be a psychopath. </p>

<p>But honestly, both of those are pretty terrible!</p>

<p>The latter</p>

<p>I deal with both.</p>

<p>It’s sad, but it’s life.</p>

<p>I can’t believe how many people are choosing the latter! Do you really comprehend what it means to have nobody ever love you again? </p>

<p>In the latter case I’d be likely to kill myself.</p>

<p>Wait, this is confusing. The order of the choices is different in the title and in the message.</p>

<p>I would wanna love someone.</p>

<p>I wanna stand with you on a mountain
I wanna bathe with you in the sea
I wanna lay like this forever
Until the sky falls down on me</p>

<p>Sorry. Got too enthusiastic</p>

<p>Well, you wouldn’t get to stand with them or bathe with them or anything with them because they wouldn’t love you back. You’d just get to pine sadly in a corner.</p>

<p>Hmm… That’s true. Maybe they’ll want me for my money…</p>

<p>Here’s some more fitting lyrics:</p>

<p>I’m here without you baby
But you’re still on my lonely mind
I think about you baby
And I dream about you all the time</p>

<p>To love. Because you actually know what you’re investing is worthwhile. If it was the other way around, you might not even be aware of it. Which would be sad. And sometimes unwanted.</p>

<p>Yes, unwanted love is creepy sometimes.
I mean, creepy because your friend of the opposite gender begins to change because they start liking you and they’re so unlike theirselves that I feel like avoiding them.</p>

<p>Or is this just me?</p>

<p>Yea I have that problem too when my multiple girl friends want me as a boyfriend.</p>

<p>Wow I need to quit being a cocky lying ******</p>

<p>Unrequited love sucks so I’d rather be loved.</p>