<p>Is it End-of-the world while getting a C in graduate school? Absolutely not! As long as you </p>
<p>In the late 80s, at the age of 24, I came to the US, the land of opportunity, to obtain a graduate degree in the field that I am really interested in. Like many foreign students from non-English Speaking countries, I struggled in express myself verbally so I had a difficult time during the first semester. My academic advisor Dr. M, who was very impatient about my English, gave up on me and eventually I received a C for his class. In this decent private university I attended, to get any scholarship was very competitive and depended heavily on professor's research grants. Instead of getting me (his student) scholarship, Dr. M closed the door on me and I barely survived (C=2.0 in GPA calculation and any course with a C grade could not be counted as credits hours toward graduation in Master of Science programs). Was I a bad student? At first I had such a doubt in my mind, but not until I spoke with chairman of another department in my cross-disciplinary program, Dr. E, a well-known professor in our field. I still remember the encouraging words from him that day: </p>
<p>I remember you. You took two courses that I taught last semester. And you aced both of them. </p>
<p>I understand your English without any problem. </p>
<p>I have a southern accent; too I will be very pleased if my Chinese is as good as your English. </p>
<p>Dr. M has no plan on you, but I do. Welcome to the team (family)! </p>
<p>Who said students with a C in their master programs are doomed. Work hard and study
hard; you can make it. </p>
<p>Five years after this, I invited Dr. E to participate in my doctoral dissertation committee for the oral defense at my second graduate school (a prestigious one) located on the East Coast. I not only survived but also made it all the way. Indeed, I was deeply indebted to Dr. E. Without him, my academic career will be a short one and I wont be able to go this far. After all these years, his firm, caring and encouraging voices still echo in my ears:</p>
<p>I will be very pleased if my Chinese is as good as your English.
Welcome to the team (family)!
Who said students with a C in their master programs are doomed. Work hard and study hard; you can make it.</p>
<p>Is it End-of-the world while getting a C in graduate school? Absolutely not! As long as you keep working hard and studying hard; commit and engage yourself with the professor who really cherishes (likes or has confidence in) you; you can make it. </p>
<p>Thank God for sending Dr. E to help and guide me while I was walking through a very dark valley.</p>
<p>That's my story. What is yours?</p>