Actually it sounds like this student comes from a school which does not use weighted GPA.
I think the student needs to understand that while this isn’t “fair” to those students who take harder classes, that most weighting systems are extremely unfair also. Most weighting systems add a bonus to honors and AP classes, and the bonus varies, it could be 1 for both or .5 for honors and 1 for AP, or some schools even add more than 1 for AP. Then the grades are averaged together. If you think about it though, what this system does mathematically is award more of a bonus to students who take study halls and less of a bonus to those who take electives. Consider two students who get straight As. Student 1 took 4 honors classes and 2 electives. Student 2 took 4 honors classes and 2 study halls. Student 1 has a GPA of ((45) + (24))/6 = 4.67 Student 2 has a GPA of 4*5/4 = 5.0. So, taking electives reduces the bonus students receive from their course weightings. The system is saying that somehow those honors classes were harder for the student who took study halls than for the student who took elective classes. This is obviously completely unfair, but it seems to be by far the most widely used system.
Then there is the issue of deciding what courses deserve to be weighted and how. If you give .5 for honors and 1 for AP, you’re saying that honors precalc is easier than AP human geography? I can tell you that Art, which isn’t weighted at our school, is a lot harder than some of those easy APs. Then there are other issues. For instance, our kids in band get elective credit for marching band whereas the kids in chorus don’t get credit for the small choral ensembles. This makes it near impossible for a kid in band to be valedictorian.
I read stories on here of kids doing all kinds of counterproductive things to puff up their GPA. Even in our relatively non-competitive area, I’ve heard that school counselors from a private school are advising their students entering high school to arrange to hide the middle school credits for languages etc because those are non-weighted classes and if they keep them off the transcript they will have a higher GPA.
There is a better way to weight honors classes, but it seems to be rarely used, I suspect because most school administrators don’t understand how their weighting system is flawed and/or don’t know how to fix this. That is to average the unweighted grades and then add a small bonus for each honors/AP class taken. In this case, everyone gets the same bonus for the same class; the bonus received does not depend on whether they also took electives. It’s still rather unfair because now instead of regarding study halls as harder than electives, it regards them as the same, but at least students in electives aren’t being penalized. Perhaps it would also make sense to add a small bonus for each elective taken.
No matter what you do, life is not fair. It concerns me that your son is so stressed by this. This label doesn’t change anything about his GPA or what he accomplished in high school.
But if you want to improve the system for future students, I suggest at least don’t replace one unfair system with another. Really the best option is to do what our school now does. They don’t announce numerical class ranks. There is none of this I’m number 2 and they are number 1 and it’s not fair. None of this back stabbing kind of school culture. Just do away with it. The kids know who the best students are. And so do the teachers. No one needs that label and no one needs to know that they are .001 behind the next guy. I don’t know who our valedictorian was, and I don’t know what number my kid was, and none of this bothers me in the least. I do know that my kid could have been assured to be the valedictorian if she had chosen a course schedule that wasn’t the best for her, but that’s not what she chose, and it wasn’t something we considered.
Our graduation address is given by the student body president, who was elected by the students and unlike the valedictorian, has passed some qualifying test of being reasonably well liked by their fellow students.