<p>I'm not trying to be rude or clever but alot of the girls I've met and have meaningful conversations have some sort of drama going on. This one girl who I'm friends with bf slept with her best friend and she's all torn up about it and another one I met not too long ago hates her best friend because the dude she likes likes her best friend and other junk like that. There are other cases. Are these just random crap or does crap like this happen all the time. I thought this stuff only happened on tv</p>
<p>all people have issues. girls express it more. hormones.</p>
<p>That kind of stuff happens all the time regardless of gender.</p>
<p>No, Icer's right. Girls have a lot of *<strong><em>in issues. I cant tell you how many times my friends come up to me with problems and I'm just llike, "What the *</em></strong> do you want me to do about it?" I definitely take life as a joke and I think some girls need to look into this...</p>
<p>wow......thats deep</p>
<p>Every girl I have dated or been good friends with has had issues, were wounded in some way in their past (usually sexually) and carry it around like baggage. Every single one. Either an uncle sexually assaulted them, or some guy stalked them, or whatever.</p>
<p>How 'bout we tell 'em to just wallow in misery like us guys do. When next a girl comes up to you with "problems", tell her "if it doesn't lead to me having sex with you, leave me the eff alone cuz I don't care".</p>
<p>just kidding</p>
<p>Really? Er... I guess I should tell my girlfriend that I was just kidding, too.</p>
<p>The damage is done. ;) Get ready for some more drama, Fides.</p>
<p>hahah wow you cc boys really seem to have a limited view on what girls are like. </p>
<p>Most girls I know actually hate drama and scandal like that, and would rather cut off friendships with people like that, than to deal with their constant bull$#it. And if someone's bf sleeps with their best friend, they both need to be beat up, and then cut out of her life completely (even though chances are, she's angrier at her friend, which makes no sense, seeing as how it takes 2 to cheat).</p>
<p>ha wow. no not all girls have issues. im a girl, and i'm pretty much the most un-dramatic person i know.</p>
<p>guys have just as many issues. they just don't say them out loud. please, guys go around and do things that they know will **** other guys off or create drama with other girls and they pick fights over the most retarded things.</p>
<p>both sexes have issues.</p>
<p>Yeah, I agree that everyone has issues, but girls are definitely more vocal about it. I'm not a fan of drama myself, but I'm a bit confused, Icer- are you saying that one should NOT be torn up about it if their significant other slept with their best friend?</p>
<p>I have a different take on this: I don't think girls have any more issues than guys, but I think a lot of their issues are bore out of one of two of their biggest issues...overly self-involved and humungous sense of entitlement.</p>
<p>See, when something happens to guys, we wallow in it. We figure it's our problem, probably a lot of it is our fault so we shouldn't complain about it anyway, and we figure eventually it'll go away. When something happens to girls, they figure it's mainly about them (just through their own involvement), someone else needs to fix it or at the very least make them feel better about it, and they act like it's going to ruin their whole entire lives if things don't go their way.</p>
<p>^I think you got it^</p>
<p>I can't say how girls really feel because I an not one. But us guys don't like to show it. we keep it in and let it past. I always feel like a counsellor when I'm talking to a lady friend</p>
<p>gj jason, perfectly represented.
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<p>indeed, this gets quite frustrating, and sometimes i feel like telling them "dude, im not a counselor." but then they'll think your mean and not be friends with you.
quite aggravating.</p>
<p>I don't know about issues...but it seems that most girls I have known have been in some way either raped or sexually molested....I didn't know it was that common. Although they might have been lying to get sympathy or watever....I don't really give a **** anymore.</p>
<p>You people really crack me up. You'll never understand us...don't even try.
mwuahaha.</p>
<p>Um Citan, where are meeting these 'said' girls? Strip joints? Gas stations? Myspace? The corner?</p>