<p>Sorry in advance for the total girlyness of this post...</p>
<p>I've been seriously crushing on a guy fro a while now and we kind of talk but only during track. We never hang out outside of school and I don't even know if you likes me as a person let alone a potential girlfriend. He might actually think me more annoying than attractive. Anyway, I'm a relatively shy person and get my feelings hurt easily but I can also be somewhat of a b**** if pushed which worries me because I don't want to scare him off or think I'm stuck up or uninterested. I'm a senior and graduate in May so there isn't much time (plus I've NEVER had a boyfriend). One of my friends (not besties but we hang out) said that he was a one-night-stand kind of a guy...should I stop pursuing him? I'm getting tired of waiting so I was wondering if me asking him out would be too weird? Please help, I'm lost. </p>
<p>Agree with @halcyonheather Though I am no relationship expert, it’s not weird. I’ve had a couple of girls ask me, and I actually like it when they do because it shows that they actively want the relationship to happen.</p>
<p>Agree with @halcyonheather and @apandia – while I applaud you for having the energy to consider pursuing a relationship as a second semester senior (I don’t even have the energy to do Calculus homework, nevermind think about boys) – its pretty pointless to try to get a boyfriend this late in the game because breaking up is 99.999% inevitable. Just enjoy the last few months of high school without the stresses of a relationship.</p>
<p>I’m a dad, so I guess I am still a guy. If I remember my HS years well enough…yes, feel free to ask him out. If he does not like it, he is not worth your energy anyway. Most guys with any interest at all in a girl will be happy she was willing to take the first step. Even ‘cool’ (is that still a thing) guys can be afraid to ask. I learned well after HS that I had a ‘shot’ with quite a few girls in school, but I was intimidated. Go for it.</p>
<p>As for a ‘relationship’…I think people are taking a pretty big jump. Most HS relationships I remember were measured in weeks and months. Sure, there were couples who dated for years, but most of that fades as you grow up anyway. Don’t expect a life-long relationship, just have fun. Que sera sera</p>
<p>Well, I’m not a guy (obviously) but I think it’s completely fine for a girl to ask a guy out! I think it shows a certain level of confidence. Also, as some people have said^, guys usually love when the girls do the work of asking them out. Go for it!!</p>
<p>No, it’s not at all weird. I was asked out by a freshman girl last month! Although I preferred to stay friends with the girl, I was still very flattered by it. Shows that guys don’t always have to make the first move.</p>