<p>I don't know why but I don't really like shy guys,maybe as a friend but that's it.I tend to like guys that are a little or more outgoing than I am because they always know what to say....one of my friends keeps teasing me on how I like this guy eventhough I don't but I'm wondering if I should b/c he's just like me and that's pretty rare at my school(we're the same race and take ap\honors classes and well I'm not as nerdy but were not like the popular type that's all out there).He's nice and all but I like guys taller than me not almost the same height.But then again I like older guys which makes sense since I'm almost a yr older than most ppl in my grade.</p>
<p>Am I in denial or what caz he's like the only guy friend I have that's the same race as me :\ and my race isn't the minority of the school. </p>
<p>Just date him brah, don’t even think about it. Drop some hints that you like him and you want to take the relationship further. Bump into him on purpose or whatever you girls do to catch a guy’s attention.
Just do it and don’t think twice about it.
Good luck !</p>
<p>Forget about this kid and focus on your studies. He’s clearly too shy to make a move and/or not interested in you, so I don’t understand the predicament.</p>
<p>^ believe it or not high school is about more than just studying and relationships are a fairly large/important part of most teenagers lives</p>
<p>If you’re not sure you like him you probably don’t You shouldn’t force yourself to like him just because he’s similar to you Liking someone shouldn’t be something you have to think about You should just know That’s how it was for me and my boyfriend (who is nearly the exact guy version of me) I think the best relationships aren’t forced or calculated they just sorta happen</p>
<p>Never met the guy version of myself. That’d be cool. I suppose it’s not weird that you aren’t attracted to him, I mean if you don’t like him, you don’t like him. Don’t worry about it, don’t let people set you up if you don’t want to be set up!</p>
<p>You’re from cali so I’m guessing asian lol. Well the height thing is something you’d have to get over on your own. You are older than most people in your grade so that may have something to do with it. But I don’t think it would be unusual to be unattracted to the guy version of yourself. Sometimes people are (subconsciously) searching for complements to their own personalities to fill each other’s voids. If you don’t see him as being any more than a friend, don’t feel bad to keep it that way. The right guy will come along at some point.</p>
<p>^actually no I’m not but pretty much all my guy friends are asian and I said its rare for me to find guys that are like me at my school…but anyways I kinda like guys for their looks 1st then get to know them.so far of the guys I actually got to know that I liked at first turned out to be jerks and I’ve only tried to get to know like 2 and another but I he had a gf so I stopped talking to him so he doesn’t count.</p>
<p>I guess I should focus on my studies since I messed up but almost all my friends are with someone and its awkward hanging out with them so I haven’t hung out with my friends outside of school since summer plus they always seem busy. </p>
<p>Idk like maybe an inch taller than me with regular shoes and I think I’m 5’2 but I could be 5’4…but I think I’ve got problems caz this school yr I’ve been more attracted to guys outside my race :\ eventhough I have a better chance with guys of my race.Being single isn’t that bad there’s plenty of other things to do.</p>