<p>I think there are always kids at every school that like to do things differently (dress, etc). MY DS has long hair and wears ear gauges, and gets along great with everyone. He just wears and does what he wants to do, and people accept him for it.</p>
<p>I do understand, though, the desire to fit in. I think it is probably more of a girl thing.</p>
<p>It sounds like she has many wonderful choices of schools!</p>