<p>I wouldn’t use the word “force”, but that’s what would happen in our family.
The choice for the child would be between the two day school options.
I would have thought the revisits would have your son more excited. Is there more that you can do to encourage excitement about either of the day schools? I would think about setting up a meeting with a coach of a sport he plans to play in high school, or a teacher who supervises whatever EC he’s looking forward to, or a lunch with a current student.</p>