<p>So i met this girl last summer at my job place (senior is HS now, going to UCLA next year) and i used to talk to her last summer and into last fall. She stopped replying to my texts around winter. she is friends with my sister.</p>
<p>I used to think she was an awesome prude girl that i could have an actual relationship with, but apparently she was extremely desperate for attention and "hooked up" with a random guy. </p>
<p>I dont want a girl who would just hook up with random guys, but i still really like her. I texted her in april and she still didnt reply. Does she just not like me, yet still really want attention somehow?</p>
<p>Maybe she’s isn’t like you and doesn’t want a relationship? So what if she hooks up with someone else, you’re just mad it wasn’t you. Chill out, go talk to another girl. There are plenty of other fish in the sea. You’ll deal with a lot of these girls in college, they’re just experimenting.</p>
<p>She has not been replying to your texts. What makes you think she wants your attention?</p>
<p>She is not interested in you.</p>
<p>Didn’t you have a similar thread already? -_-
I am not sure but as many times as you have posted about said girl not texting you back I am not sure how many people have to tell you that she is obviously not interested…so accept it and move on.</p>
<p>“An awesome prude girl?”</p>
<p>That’s an interesting way to put that…not saying prude people can’t be awesome but generally the word “prude” has a negative connotation.</p>
<p>well im into the whole romance thing, i want a girlfriend i can go shopping with, hang out with, buy flowers for etc.</p>
<p>not saying i wouldnt be into hookups, but id like a very prude girl as my girlfriend</p>
<p>Well then you would generally say you want a girl who’s into romance lol…that’s not what prude means at all. Prude generally means “disapproving of sex,” in a negative way. You can say something like “conservative” if you want her to be disapproving of sex…but that is unrelated to how into romance she is.</p>
<p>…But that’s just semantics, it doesn’t matter too much, I just thought it was odd.</p>
<p>PS, most girls are down to go shopping or hang out lol…not just the “prude” ones. Generally if you’re in a relationship with someone, then that’s beyond hookups.</p>
<p>If she stopped replying to your texts, she has no interest in you. Move on to bigger and better things. There are 3.4 billion women in the world. Don’t get hung up on one of them who has no interest in you.</p>
<p>If she doesn’t text you, she doesn’t want one. Flat out. Period. End.</p>
<p>Get over her, por favor. There are sooo many people in college to do whatever with…just go for that.</p>
<p>Not only is she not interested in you if she doesn’t respond to your texts, but she’s also probably creeped out by you.</p>
<p>Move on, and stop making 903218 threads about a girl you’re obsessed with that clearly isn’t into you.</p>
<p>^As blunt as that was, I think I have to agree with it.</p>
<p>Many girls would like a relationship where they go shopping with and receive flowers from their boyfriend. Even the ones who like sex.</p>
<p>When a guy is too serious about a relationship…before the relationship even started, girls get scared. If this girl liked you she would have replied to your texts. Of she doesn’t reply then she doesn’t want anything to do with you. Sorry, that’s just a part of life. I’m sure you will find someone who actually replies to your texts one day. It just won’t be her.</p>
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I try. 
The op clearly doesn’t get it since he’s asked this asinine question half a dozen times, and I figured ‘why beat around the bush?’</p>
<p>She hasn’t responded to you in months. Why do you even care about who she may or may not be hooking up with? It’s none of your business anyway.
Besides, hooking up doesn’t always mean “desperate for attention.” Ever considered that -gasp!- she hooks up because she enjoys it?</p>
<p>It’s obvious she’s not interested. For both of your sakes, just leave it.</p>
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<p>No worries, Johnson, I appreciated it. :)</p>
<p>I’m into causal relationships.</p>