Is Stanford now equal to Harvard, Princeton and Yale ?

The other Ivies’ aid is unilkely to be as good as S, HYP. HYPS are all 100% grant aid vs combination grants and loans. Unless one of those is a far superior fit (academics, sports, feel), I’d simplify the equation and just focus on Stanford and the one of HYP that is recruiting you. Not enough info on the other top 25’s you mentioned to have any opinion there.