<p>If your family’s financial situation is such that a state flagship at in-state prices is “ridiculously expensive,” then I think you are being a little hasty in assuming that you will not get any FA anywhere. You may also be overestimating how strong a student you have to be to get merit at various schools.</p>
<p>I suggest you share your state, your stats, and your interests in order to enable people here to give you their best advice.</p>