Is there a lot of racial self-segregation?

<p>I am considering transferring to Tufts but I wanted to know how it stands on this issue.</p>

<p>Do the students segregate themselves a lot by nationality, race, and ethnicity? How hard is it to break into those cliques? Is it near impossible to be more than acquaintances with someone of a different race or are people receptive to hanging out with people of different backgrounds?</p>

<p>Also how diverse is it socioeconomically? Are there just a bunch of rich kids, and barely any middle class or poor? And it is like that, does it create a rift that makes it difficult to be friends with the rich kids, where they only hang out with each other, and the poorer students only hang with each other?</p>

<p>I am a low income black male, and have always been in an environment where self-segregation was almost non-existent and income disparity was never an issue with my friends. As a result I ABSOLUTELY DO NOT want to go to a school with those types of issues. Where asians only hang out with asians, etc. It is almost my most important criteria in picking a school, so any information on this would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.</p>

<p>I think some people may answer "yes" to your questions, but I personally would not. I think this is an important issue, so my response will be kind of lengthy (as everyone on this board is used to) but hopefully illustrative.</p>

<p>Many of the Tufts kids I know and love have been chameleons. I walk around and see the typical kids in their Lacoste polos and whatever, but the people I'm closest to were people I met and liked based on their personality. As it happens, some were white, others black, others Asian, others Hispanic. Later I found that some of them were really hard-up economically, while others were reallllllly rich. But I'd never know it, based on their behavior. These people at each end of the economic spectrum acted pretty much the same - cool, funny, interesting, and smart, in their own ways. It's easy, on Tufts campus, to have fun without spending any money, so economic differences need not dictate social setups. Only later on in the year, when some people would say "Let's go into Boston to get dinner" and others would say "Um...I can't really spend any more money at the moment" did our friend group even realize that people within it had differing degrees of financial constraints. But we just shrugged and went to the dining hall instead, you know? Like, I never really looked around and wondered, "Hmm, how many of these people are on serious financial aid?" That's just...retarded. But as months passed, I'd start to get a sense of the fact that one girl went to high school where it was common for girls to get pregnant, while her roommate lived on Park Ave in a building with a doorman. Didn't stop them from choosing to room together and getting along famously, b/c they were both the cool kids who got into and chose Tufts.</p>

<p>I think there are kids who will say, "Wahhh, I wanted to come to college and make friends with lots of differently-colored people, but the black and hispanic and asian kids self-segregate!" I say, it's true that at times I'll see a group of all-black or all-asian kids at a table in Dewick - but I also know that these kids are good friends because they do activities together, from cultural groups to dance/step teams. And at nearby tables in the dining hall, other groups sitting together tend to be mixed.</p>

<p>Basically, I believe that if you reach out to all people equally, you'll def. find people of all races to hang out with. On move-in day sophomore year, I walked by a room near mine and saw two black guys blasting hip hop with ridiculous bass. As I walked by, I said "Hey!" and they said hey back to me. A few days later I stopped by their door and said, "Hey, I just wanted to introduce myself, I'm Renee, I'll be living down the hall." One of them was like, "Good to finally meet you! You walked by the other day and I was like, Wow, that girl is friendly." That's all it takes, really - as the year went by I'd stay up talking to him until 3 am about crap from video games to sexiling to LOST. But would that have happened if I'd just walked by their door without ever making an effort to get to know them? Obviously not. And there were probably people on my hall who assumed that the seven foot tall black guys wouldn't want to talk to them. Their loss. </p>

<p>Anyway, that example is not of, like, me and my token black friends or anything, because they're just a few of the multicolored cast of characters I like at Tufts. I was just trying to show that all I did was say Hey - and it's not like I singled them out either, I went out of my way to know everyone on my hall. I guess my point is just that you can make your group as multiracial as you want as long as the personalities mesh. For the most part, people are totally open-minded, and I don't know anyone who can say that they don't have any friends outside their race. Like...I think it'd be hard NOT to have a friend from a different race, b/c they're in your dorm, classes, extracurriculars, etc.</p>

<p>Anyway, if you want to transfer to Tufts, I don't think you'll have any problem finding friends of all different backgrounds. It's a really cool community, where even the aforementioned Lacoste-wearing types are of different races and have a lot to offer :-D</p>

<p>I'm not entirely sure I'm going to articulate this correctly, but I'm going to answer anyway because this is a valuable question to have answered. So I ask that you bear with me and follow the spirit of what I'm saying, even if my word choice could use improvement.</p>

<p>My junior year at Tufts I entered into a conversation with a friend about the 'self-segregation' that takes place. My friend responded by asking me to actually look around the cafeteria next time I was at dinner and double check my assumptions - an exercise that really surprised me. </p>

<p>The idea was that there was actually little self-segregation going on, but that a table of entirely ethnically Asian/African/Caucasian/etc has a way of standing out when a table of different people does not. My eye was being drawn to those 'self segregated' tables because that is what I assumed was happening, which exaggerated the reality. It was a bit of a shock when I purposefully looked for ethnically diverse tables and started seeing them everywhere. Constantly. My own habits didn't change, but my understanding of my surroundings did.</p>

<p>I'm not trying to say it doesn't exist to some extent, but that when I really started paying attention, I discovered my assumptions were wrong and Tufts to be a place where that self-segregation was not the norm. If you'd like, I'd be happy to put you in touch with some recent African-American grads or current students, and you can get a better sense of their perspective.</p>

<p>I think both Renee and Dan gave you really good answers, and I need not even expand lengthily.</p>

<p>Racial/ethnic self-segregation exists everywhere to some extent, unfortunately. We don't live in a perfect world, alas. But understanding why it happens sometimes is important. What Renee said above about how a lot of kids that look the same hang out together because they, for example, dance bhangra (a South Asian dance) together makes sense. </p>

<p>If you want a rainbow-like crowd -- socially, racially, economically -- you'll find it. Easily. I did, and I wouldn't have had it otherwise.</p>

<p>haha, and to add to that, I'm friends with a white guy on the Bhangra team...they're not even all South Asian :)</p>

<p>Thanks. Those are exactly the answers I was looking for. I know that self-segregation goes on everywhere, I just didn't want to even apply to a place that has rampant segregation, and on top of that is the type where its almost impossible to make friends of different backgrounds because of it.</p>

<p>Its not so much that I want a multi-colored cast of friends because I could have an all (insert background here) clique of friends and be happy as long as they were great friends. I just want the opportunity to make friends of a different race if they're someone that I find interesting and not find a brick wall, where I can never be more than an acquaintance because I'm not Korean, Rich, or whatever. </p>

<p>Thats my biggest beef with self-segregation, how it blocks out people from different backgrounds and as a result maintains the damaging stereotypes that many people hold today.</p>

<p>If people would just make friends based on similar interests and personality alone and be colorblind you would find that its almost impossible to be in a racially segregated clique, because you won't find only Asians in the book club, or only Blacks in the poetry club, because people of all colors have similar interests as you, and personalities that you like. But thats another rant, and I could go on forever about it.</p>

<p>As long as people on campus are willing to give others from different backgrounds a chance to develop strong friendships with them, it seems like the perfect place for me.</p>

<p>Now all I have to worry about is getting in. :p</p>

<p>It's been a year since my son - a freshman - and I walked through Tufts, getting a feel for the campus and its student body. At the time, I noted that it was one of the few campuses where the student body not only appeared diverse, but also seemed to intermingle and enjoy their diversity.</p>

<p>My son has just completed his first semester at Tufts, and I revisited this question. Do kids from different backgrounds interact and socialize with each other? His sage response: there are those who chose to do so, and those who do not. </p>

<p>He then showed me pictures of himself sledding down the hill behind the library with his friends. It was a pretty diverse group of kids of different color, and from what he tells me, very different backgrounds. And they all had big smiles on their faces.</p>

<p>As for relative affluence, I can only say that my son would not be able to attend this very special university without the financial aid he is receiving. He's spending part of his semester break working at the local supermarket. </p>

<p>Perhaps the most stunning observation he shared was this: while all of his friends looked forward to going home for their break NONE of them was looking forward to leaving the Tufts community. My son noted that all of his friends were quite happy at Tufts, and while they were eager to visit family and friends, they had no real desire to leave the Tufts.</p>

<p>I think that says a lot.</p>

<p>Plus the hall they put you in freshman year does a lot. Those kids living relatively close to your dorm are likely to become some of your best friends and it's really a lottery if they end up being a diverse group or a very homogeneous one. At tufts especially though, you have a good chance of being with a lot of very different people.</p>