@chalkj, I’m not sure where you’re getting this idea. I may be wrong, but looking at your picture you seem to be a very young person, again this could be a decoy:) I can only tell you about my son’s experience so far at Yale as a freshman. He was placed in a suite of 8 boys where one quit school cause he was not “feeling it” and another moved to a different room outside their suite for personal reasons. Yet the other 6 stayed together and will room as sophomores next year. He’s being challenged academically (it’s Yale) but has not changed his attitude towards the school. I can tell you by looking from the outside he’s making friends for a lifetime and having fun.