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The consensus is that WashU admissions people are some of the nicest college admissions people out there, so your reaction is certainly atypical. Were you expecting them to do something in particular? Also, how did you know people had "lots of $$ and were social climbers that wish they had gotten into Harvard"? This sounds very presumptuous and ignorant.</p>
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Now to show my total non-PC, there were large banners on every pole. I mean, let's just shove it down our throats, shall we? My son said if he went there he was going to start a pro-polygamy group on campus and recruit heavily and protest for the university to have polygamy banners on every pole as well.
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<p>Those banners are not an attempt to force people to be accepting of LGBT people just as flyers advertising religious organizations are not an attempt to force religion on anybody. However, WashU, like all the top schools, does strive to create an atmosphere that's free from prejudice and discrimination, including homophobia. For this reason, your son will not be a good fit for nor will he be welcome at any of them. I specifically request that he doesn't apply to NU.</p>
<p>I don't know about others, but I would not object to having a pro-polygamy group on campus. It probably wouldn't be very popular but who's to say it can't exist? </p>
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But the drive to perform, the competitiveness, the stress I heard about from so many students there, was just not what we were looking for.
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So you were hoping to see people at this top-flight institution to be academic superstars but not stress out about it? That's kind of unrealistic. Even people who don't go to top schools stress out if they care at all about their schoolwork. Those who are out partying 3+ nights a week probably don't care that much to perform at their highest level.</p>
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But when the largest and most obnoxious paintings that every student walks by every day was SEX SEX SEX and then graphic sex depictions, I thought, am I the only one that finds this problematic? (again the university officials extolled this student painting area as free expression. Well, it sure was). I feel sorry for the girls walking through there everyday being objectified.
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Objectification goes both ways as all humans are animals with sexual urges. Because sex involves physical attraction, all who engage in the act inevitably objectify their partners in some way. I mean, how could you have sex with somebody without thinking about their private parts? You've rehashed a common pseudo-feminist narrative that's false and sexist.</p>