Is there something wrong with me?

Pre-College Topics High School Life
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<p>So - it's a little ironic - but is there something wrong with me, because I don't find there to be anything wrong with me? </p>

<p>I'm 16 year old girl, and every girl around me moans and groans because they think they're too stupid/ugly/overweight - the list goes on and on. They complain their hair isn't shiny enough or their thighs touch, and all this other nonsense. But when I sit, and I consider myself and my life - I don't think there's anything really wrong with me. </p>

<p>Like, I know I'm no size 00 supermodel, but that's okay, you know? I don't need to be, I know that... if that makes sense. I think I'm smart, I think I'm alright looking, I'm in pretty decent shape... but I feel like if I tell people this, they'll assume I'm some egotistical, self absorbed jerk, just because I'm not suffering from any detriments to my self esteem.</p>

<p>IDK. Do you go through any self esteem issues? Is it normal to not be feeling the stereotypical societal pressure to be perfect that apparently so many girls go through?</p>

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<p>So you’re insecure…about not feeling insecure…Let me console you in your time of grief.</p>

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<p>@Niquii77 Thank you, I really need a shoulder to cry on. Life can be cruel sometimes.</p>

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<p>Hey…someone’s gotta have your back ;)</p>

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<p>Haha. I love the way Niquii77 put it! :smiley: You’re thinking too hard about this; eat some chocolate and you should be fine.</p>

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<p>Yeah, I<code>m like you, I don</code>t really have issues with myself at all…except I<code>m not insecure about not being insecure or something like that. Be glad, most people aren</code>t like that.</p>

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<p>@CE527M - insecureception</p>

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<p>^What? 10char</p>

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<p>Like inception, lol.</p>

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<p>^Ah, haha.</p>

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<p>I’m ugly, but I don’t complain about it or think it’s a bad thing. It’s just sort of how it is, how it has always been. I care that I’m not overweight, but that’s about it.
I’m probably stupid, too. At least compared to smart people. But I can’t do a whole lot about that either, and if I lost any sleep over it I’d go insane.</p>