<p>I'm kind of a shy guy with poor social skils. however, i am trying to improve my social life at the new school i transferred to by joining clubs, talking to people in my classes, etc. </p>
<p>I have 2 roommates, who I'll call roommate#1 and roommate#2 to clarify things. My roommates seem like normal guys but all they seem to do is use their computers and watch tv and study a little. I rarely come back to my apartment without them there (they rarely get out of the room). I dont think theyre in any clubs, sports, extracurriculars. Me and roommate#1 hardly say a word to each other. roommate #1 clearly doenst like me. During the 1st week, when I was talking aobut going to some campus event but decided not to go, he said "why arent you going?" , as if he really wanted me to leave. They also talk to each other briefly, but more often than they do with me</p>
<p>roommate#2 is actually in the same class as me, but he rarely talks to anyone in the class. In that class, I talk to some other studnets who are in other classes with me. usually when we walk to that class from our room together, we hardly say anything. he seems like a nice guy, but I dont know for sure. Also, for that class, I've already seen alot of that material from a corresponding lower-div class, but my roommate did not, so I'm sailing thru while hes struggling. He often asks me for help on the Hw. I usually just tell him the answer or whatever, but I dont want to help him too much. </p>
<p>I know part of the reason for all this awkwardness is because of me, but that may be because I have a negative opinion of them in general as they hardly do anythign besides watching tv and using computers. </p>
<p>as for roommate rules, we hardly say anything to each other. i guess we just use common sense. the good thing about them is that theyre not too loud (they dont play loud music, have parties, invite friends over, etc). heck, when ever we do discuss things, like how to split the bills for groceries, its usually me and roommate#2 who discuss, roommate#1 just says "it doesnt matter". </p>
<p>What counts is that we get along as roommates, but necessarily as friends</p>
<p>sorry for the long post, but I'm really confused here. Am I really awkward, or my roommmates, all of us, or what? what aspects of us are awkward or need to change?</p>