<p>Perfectwall, I can relate! I think Donna is right. But knowing what's behind it is one thing ... living through it is quite another. When my now-easygoing son was 2 or 3, I always said that God made him so darn cute to keep me from killing him (he was a handful!). Now I tell myself that God made my D such a pain so I could handle the pain of her leaving home. We'll get through it ... in my case, with a few more gray hairs & a couple more stress-pounds.</p>