Is tipping for everything out of control?

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This quote from the article blows my mind!
ā€œClarissa Moore, a 35-year-old who works as a supervisor at a utility company in Pennsylvania, said even her mortgage company has been asking for tips lately.ā€

Since I started this post back in June(!), I no longer tip ANYTHING on any screen, except for waitstaff at a restaurant. If they have a tip jar, I leave a tip if I feel they deserve one.

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My husband was recently at the dermatologist and when he checked out on the screen you could tip the front desk receptionists.

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Omg. I think that is the most incredibly insane thing Iā€™ve heard yet about unexpected places youā€™re asked to tip!!!

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Omg! Was going to post the same thing. Maybe we have the same dermatologist :laughing:
I couldnā€™t believe it when I saw it.

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Folks, we need to put a top to this madness!

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Unbelievable!

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This is NUTS!!

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Dermatologist?? Do you think that was on there for people coming in to get treatments like facials or even Botox??? Kind of like a spa?

(Or am I just being really naive and generous in my assumptions . . .)

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Nopeā€”not tipping mortgage company (if we still had one), nor any receptionist, nor everyone who has their hand out. Just nope.

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I work in a library. Going to see if we can set up an ipad with a tip line for when we help people. If you canā€™t beat 'emā€¦

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It was definitely front desk. The esthetician has her Venmo information on a placard on the front desk!

We recently stayed at a nice hotel. The breakfast buffet was fabulousā€¦ the views were great, and there were cute stray cats keeping the birds in check. Staff at the buffet has a big, no, giant red stamp that they put on every checkā€¦ ā€œgratuity not included.ā€ I tipped them well so they would look away when we gave fish to the strays hanging around our table. :slight_smile:

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Hereā€™s something new:

The travel website https://www.traveluro.com/ asks for a tip after you book your trip.

Ok, another ā€˜grinchā€™ here. Since the cost of dining out has risen so much, wouldnā€™t tips also rise proportionately? Why has the percentage then risen over time? Standard used to be 15%. Now 20%. But even 15% of a much higher bill, raises the tip.

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I donā€™t buy that.

The same theory would be why do you tip less at say dennys than a casual steakhouse or place like Olive Garden. Same work but different bills.

I would say that tipping 20% helps the employee keep up with increased costs. Their life expenses arenā€™t the same just like yours arenā€™t.

I understand not being able to afford 20%. Then Iā€™d say choose your restaurant choice. Or eat out less.

But penalizing the employee isnā€™t fair ā€¦IMHO of course.

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The underlying problem is our American system of not paying wait staff a decent wage and depending on the generosity of customers (via tips) to make up the difference. I travel a lot, and thatā€™s not how it works in other countries.

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Iā€™ve been a server, as have my 3 daughters, 1 is currently a bartender in Boston (in grad school full time). Most servers who need to make good money donā€™t want a fair wage. My daughterā€™s favorite shift is Thursday nights into Friday morning, took her a bit to earn it. Grueling, yes, but she makes a lot of money in those hours. Her least favorite are Sundays, starts 9 am. Easy work, bad tips. There is no way sheā€™d work Thursday nights if she was getting the same amount as Sunday mornings.

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A group in Portland got a citizenā€™s referendum on the ballot for a ā€œfair wageā€ for servers. The servers said, ā€œWe donā€™t want that!ā€ They actually convinced the group to withdraw their support for the measure, but it was too late to take it off the ballot. Fortunately, it failed because servers put together an effective ad campaign.

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Yep!