<p>chris’mom, it depends on how Vassar interprets your financial status. If you are a Californian with a lot of equity in your home, your children will not get much financial aid, even if you have suffered through periods of unemployment but are working now. Vassar won’t care if you have not been able to build up your 401K account with employer contributions, because you only work for an employer for two or three years (at most) before your division is closed or the company goes under. This is real. I have friends in this situation.</p>
<p>If you are a civil service employee with a good pension but a modest salary living in a low cost area of the country (so your home has not risen in value and is not worth that much anyway), your children would qualify for a lot of financial aid at Vassar. That is as it should be. Vassar won’t consider your retirement benefits in the calculation of financial aid. But many Californians who work for private industry have little in the way of retirement accounts and have struggled with unemployment while still paying high mortgages. They are counting on the equity in their private homes to fund their retirements, but Vassar wants them to dip into that money to pay for college.</p>
<p>I don’t begrudge you for the financial aid your children have received. All I ask is that you understand that you are lucky that your particular financial circumstances qualify you for more financial aid than other families who also have difficulty footing the bill simply because the formula works to your advantage.</p>
<p>The only way to make private colleges like Vassar accessible to everyone who qualifies is for colleges to find ways to cut fees. But why should Vassar take this approach? If you don’t think Vassar gave you a good enough financial aid package, and you turn down their offer of admission, there’s always someone who was probably an equally good student in high school on the waiting list who wants to attend.</p>
<p>Years ago, my parents, both civil service employees, sent me to an expensive private college similar to Vassar without access to financial aid. Yes, chrismom, they tightened their belts- but only so they would not have to dip into savings to send me to college! We will never return to those days, which were funded on the backs of the rest of the world as well as the underprivileged at home, but the situation today is ridiculous.</p>
<p>vonlost, please be real. Everyone knows that the fancy prep schools have been tickets into the Ivies. The same is true today, just to a lesser extent. Is it easier to get admitted to Harvard if you are from Trinity or Exeter or from Stuyvesant or Hunter? How many students are admitted to the Ivies from each of these schools? Do we really have to look up the information to ask if it is fair? But I cannot speak specifically for Vassar.</p>
<p>In addition, vonlost, my friend is THRILLED that Vassar is accepting poor students. If he has a bias, it’s in favor of what Vassar is doing, so why are you questioning his bias as an explanation for his statements?</p>
<p>I have a friend who is a Vassar alum, and I told her this morning about my recent posting and your responses. She has just replied to me that Vassar raked in the money in their recent fundraising drive. They collected many millions more than they anticipated. Good for them. You can tell me there’s not necessarily a connection, but it sounds to me as though all this publicity about educating Pell Grant students has paid off handsomely for the college. So, let’s go screw the middle class next year, too. It’s good for business.</p>