Its been a month now...

<p>Still just have a few acquaintances but nobody to talk to and hit up to do things with... While I watch my roomate soak it all in and go out every weekend and bring back all sorts of girls to the room. It just gets to me because I know I'm just as fun and outgoing but I can't seem to have fun here... I know these threads pop up a lot but I just need some advice, reassurance, or if I should think about transfering. Is a month too early to tell? How long should I give it? I love the school academically and everything else, but socially I hate it. I am simply not happy here and if this continues than I will seriously consider transfering... Can any people with similar experiences give me any feedback about how their frosh year ended up going?</p>

<p>Hmm...is everyone rich/snobby and you're not? Everyone into sports and you're not? can you think of anything that would somehow differentiate you from them? Identifying the cause of the problem is a huge step to fixing it.</p>

<p>Try talking to your roomy when you are alone together, if she's nice. Say you're having a hard time hitting it off and ask her to introduce you to her friends and include you in some stuff (without sounding whiny...asking if you can come along to a party they're getting ready for is one thing, clinging to her all the time is completely another). Better yet, become friends with her?</p>

<p>And how about guys? If you like anyone, having a bf can give you someone to hang with, talk to, have fun with, etc. Even if you guys don't last long you'll still have the friends you met through him (I'm not saying use a guy to meet people, but if you like a guy and he likes you, dating can be a great way to branch out)</p>

<p>hope i helped. Stay strong, i've been thru that feeling and it sucks..but it always gets better when you least expect it. you can always pm me!!</p>

<p>That happened to me (although I met a few people I liked), but I eventually transferred and have been MUCH happier socially.</p>