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<sighs> The military does change people. But for the better. Do you know your friend's entire circumstances? From what it seems, only the fact he went to basic and came back changed. True, basic changes you.They break you down and put you back together piece by piece. But that's the entire point. They can't just teach you and hope you remember. They have to make it your nature. Surfette, maybe your friend just wasn't prepared. I know many, many young men and women who know what they are getting into and are better for it.
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<p>It's a good thing I just slit my throat, or else I would have called you a "beepity beep". </p>
<p>This is how the military works (understand that I am blatantly grouping the entire United States military together, so forgive me for that...just think majority)</p>
<p>You are poor, perhaps even uneducated, and looking for a way to earn a respectable living. You have a friend who is in the military, who tells you about how the military is going to pay for college and give you a car and retirement benefits...the works! This friend convinces you to join the army. </p>
<p>Little do you know that this "friend" receives and award for recruiting you. This "friend" doesn't have to go back to actually fighting the war and being in Iraq, but gets to become a well-paid recruitment officer. But if this "friend" doesn't get enough recruits....well his ass is sent overseas. </p>
<p>So now you are in the military. You want to gain some responsibility. Does this occur? NO. Every part of your life is controlled. There are strict rules that you must follow. Everyday is planned and you lose a lot of your independence. </p>
<p><em>PAUSE</em> This does not happen to everyone. If you are upper white class. Male. It is much easier for you to become someone of higher rank. More freedom, better benefits...you get the picture <em>/PAUSE</em></p>
<p>If you are a woman or a minority you will be severly discriminized against. The rape cases are off the charts. A higher ranked male officer can ask for sexual favors...if a woman says no? Well lets just say that she WILL be punished. </p>
<p>So you go and fight and if you're lucky, you won't see anything too gruesome or experience anything too harmful. If you're lucky you won't suffer one of the MANY emotional affects of war. Oh, and hopefully you'll survive. </p>
<p>Now you are home. You have all the freedom in the world. Suddenly it seems unbearable. Can I go to the bathroom? Or should I wait until half past 10, when the bathroom break is. How do I feed myself? I've never cooked before. I am 24 years old, but I haven't been in the "real world" since I was 17. </p>
<p>And finally...those "benefits". Ever check how long the wait list is for college? It takes YEARS for the government to finally cough up the money to pay for schooling. Did you know that there is a limited amount of time to use this money? I believe it is 8 years. (Don't hold me to this). So I get out, and am now waiting for my money. Six years later it finally rolls around. Now I have 2 years to go to college. But what if I have a family to support now? What if college just isn't feasible at the moment? Well tough luck my friend. The other benefits hinder similar results. </p>
<p>The military is hard. Especially for women and minorities. I applaud anyone who willingly enters, especially those who return "for the better". I whole-heartedly support our troops but I do NOT support war and I do NOT support the military. It is far too corrupt. But then again, what isn't these days?</p>