I've let my kid down!! :-(

<p>Many of us have been through this. Some will be lucky and get extra $ from schools, some families will find/borrow the money to make it work (it’s easier to draw a financial line in the sand before you get acceptances), and some people will decide not to go.</p>

<p>Frankly, I’m surprised that in rural LA at an AGI of 150K they only expect you to pay 20K. Here in a suburb of NYC for not that much more income they expected us to pay 100%.</p>