<p>secretguy, it seems given your stated criteria that you ought to be looking in your own backyard at USC. Large enough to find people of every kind, unlike some ivies, with many of the traditional benefits of an ivy: great academics, research opportunities, professors who are leaders in their fields, etc. USC will not be your social high school.</p>
<p>But I’m a firm believer, having learned the hard way, that the trail to the right college begins with asking your parents what they can afford to offer you in support (get a firm number) and what the college is going to ask them to contribute (net price calculator). Then look for colleges that suit your needs and desires. The Rolls Royce is a beautiful car, but its value to you is dependent upon your ability to put gas in it.</p>