<p>I think it’s pretty obvious that if you are considering an Ivy League school that you want an academic powerhouse; there is nothing wrong with being concerned about the social scene at a place you plan to live in for four years.</p>
<p>I agree with the suggestion of Columbia - I’m a grad student here, and it sounds like it’s the Ivy that’s right up your alley. I also think it sounds like you would enjoy Brown.</p>
<p>If you are interested in non-Ivies and warm weather is your concern, I would also check out some Southern schools. Duke comes to mind - noted for its great social scene; it’s also a pretty diverse school. It is unfortunately not really in a large city, but it is only 30 miles from Raleigh.</p>
<p>Another suggestion might be Rice. Vanderbilt does have more of a “preppy” reputation, but you might want to visit and see for sure.</p>