<p>I just don't think people understand. Spend a week at Brown, Stanford, or Dartmouth and you'll get a very different vibe than most other schools. People are brilliant but they are absolutely humble about it. It was for me absolutely refreshing, but its not for everyone. Having been to two Ivies, I cannot emphasize enough how different they are in this way. When I went to the latest reunion (not my classes but the year older) I barely talked about what job I had, but rather spent much more time just 'playing.'</p>