<p>My two cents…</p>
<p>My son had similiar choices for baseball. For the sake of disclosure, he selected the Ivy school. If it was his decision to make again, it would be the same criteria:</p>
<p>1) Go where you can play or have a chance to play soon. This was a huge factor. Now that he is in college, it is even a bigger factor than previously thought.
2) Go where he is wanted by the coaches
3) Go where the academic fit is best, and he feels most comfortable socially</p>
<p>My son had no intentions of being drafted or going pro. If your son has his sites set on going Pro, then I would go to the non-Ivy school.</p>
<p>Feel free to PM if you want to discuss.</p>