<p>Hey, DMG...I think you should look at schools in the Wash, DC area (I've already "adopted" Berurah's kids, including you by extension...if you're here, I get you and BF together at my house...who knows, maybe I could even get Berurah and the rest of the brood to come out for some visits! Yeah...definitely look at DC schools!)...grin a big grin...</p>
<p>Seriously, Duke is about 4 or 4.5 hours from DC, w/good "public transport" (plane, bus, carpool) options...and there are some amazing schools here...someone already posted about the VA school system (U VA, Wm & Mary)...but look into George Mason, James Madison and VA Tech, too...and Georgetown (great science/medical programs, very strong on gov't/foreign service programs), Johns Hopkins in Baltimore (only about 45 minutes from the U.S. Capitol in DC) is a seriously fine science school that almost "got" your BF before Duke came through, George Washington, American, Catholic, etc. </p>
<p>We'll be really interested in your test scores when you get them back...certainly your GPA and ECs are way up there...why not consider Duke itself? It works for your BF/Berurah's son/my "adopted nephew", why not you???)...</p>
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<p>overanxious mother!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!</p>
<p>Thanks so much for offering to adopt <em>my</em> adopted daughter!!! <em>lol</em> A better "aunt" could never be had! :) And thanks for the warm welcome and great suggestions for DMG!</p>
<p>DMG~</p>
<p>If you have us as family, you have overanxious mother too--lucky you! She is the best family ever!! My kids' absolute favorite "aunt"!!! </p>
<p>Oh, it's only a problem 2-4 times a year depending on whether they meet each other in tournaments or not (and I just ignore Duke football). We've never been put to the ultimate test -- meeting in the Final Four or (God forbid) the championship game. Almost happened a few times, but UNC lost to Kansas one year in the semifinals, and another year Duke lost in the Regional Finals. That would be . . . problematic.</p>
<p>Why don't you just go to the best school you get into and not worry about a HS relationship? One of my cousins, an attorney in Denver, lived away from her husband for several years while he went to dental school in Michigan. Things worked out for the best. I hate to play a sort of "devil's advocate" role in this discussion, but chances are you won't be together by the time you get to college, regardless of how "in love" you think you are.</p>
<p>Hi dukemansgirl!
Welcome to CC. Sure sounds like berurah is a big fan of yours, and supports your decision to explore all options. </p>
<p>I mentioned something on another thread that I thought is worth repeating here. My s. and his gf. have been managing a long distance relationship for a while, he in Tx, she in Fla. Another family friend's son and his gf have been doing the long distance thing (between Mass and DC) for 3 years now. Raleigh-Durham has 2 airport options very nearby, and discount carriers fly into each. You can easily fly to many large cities (Atlanta, DC, NY, PA, maybe even Hartford, Boston) for not a lot of money. Airfare deals, especially last minute ones, pop up all the time. Flights are quick and easy. For instance, it'd be faster to fly to Atlanta (less than an hour) than to drive ( about 5.5 - 6.5 hrs, depending on traffic), and Airtran frequently has fares as low as $39. You can ALWAYS (except over holidays) fly standby on Airtran as a student (bet'n the ages of 18-22) for, I believe $69 (they just had a price change). Only rule--carry-on luggage only. So, keep your options open. Find waht is best for you. If that is in NC, fine. But there are lots of great schools. What do you plan to study?</p>
<p>By the way, my s. feels that there is an advantage to a long distance relationship. When he's at school he can really focus on his studies, and is motivated to be organized and get ahead (when possible) so that they can spend some weekends together. Worth thinking about...</p>
<p>Good luck. If the relationship is meant to be, it'll work out. Do what is best for YOU.</p>
<p><strong>ADDENDUM</strong>* Southwest airlines also flies out of Raleigh-Durham. So that's two large discount airlines already, and I haven't even checked the other airport! Lots of very viable options!!! Keep your options open- don't close any doors.</p>
<p>Thanks everyone for all the help! I really appreciate all that you are doing for me. I'm definantly going to keep all my options open. I know Berurah will help me pick the perfect college for me, but we still have awhile before the final decision. You're the best Mom! :)</p>
<p>I also have to get all this testing done too. That will narrow the running down a little bit. So cross your fingers! lol. I'm taking the ACT on Feb 11, and I've been studying. So hopefully it isn't a complete disaster. lol</p>
<p>I'll keep everyone posted on any new updates. Thanks again for all your help! </p>
<p>While my wife and I are a "Carolina couple," Duke-Carolina marriages are not unheard of, and have actually been known to be successful if somewhat difficult during bb season.</p>