<p>We’re going through this too, one coach says they definitely “support” us and “trust me” and all that, but aren’t able to give a likely right now, maybe later in October. Another says we are #2 on list, call back in 2-3 weeks and a 3rd says if we commit right now, they will issue the likely. Of course the top choices are the least certain and anecdotally we hear slots are being filled. Definitely a game that is half chicken, half musical chairs. Child handling phone discussions which makes it all the more nerve-wracking. “Support” can mean so many things depending on the school and coach. MOWC’s story on swimming is what has us most concerned since we’ve heard a few of these ourselves. Foto2gem - our experience is that coaches said they would follow up after the visits, but didn’t, but did come back later. I just think they are busy and juggling a lot and don’t usually remember what they say to each recruit (although of course the recruits remember precisely). No problem initiating contact yourself, it’s easier if you know for sure which school is your first choice. There are no rules, every situation is difference.</p>