<p>recruiting is said to be much like a relationship…“they show me they like me, i show them i like them.” when you are not being contacted by a program regularly at this point, asked to apply for admission, etc…to me that sends up a red flag that you are not a priority recruit and that they are contacting others. sometimes recruits have to move forward and keep chugging along in the process (and it might a lengthy one). that might mean making more visits, contacting more schools, sending out more tape, etc. it’s a pretty anxious time but being pro-active is certainly a better alternative than not being pro-active in the process.</p>