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1. Social life: Great question. I guess this has already been discussed on other CC threads, but in summary, the party scene isn’t great. That said, I wouldn’t say that a bad party scene = bad social life, which is a point that I think a lot of people miss.
Personally, I’ve had a great social life at Amherst. Most of my friends from high school (I attended a major public high school that was twice the size of Amherst) went to large public universities/Ivies, and compared to them, I’d say that I’ve had a much easier time making friends. It just sort of happens when you see certain people over and over again over the course of college, whether in Val, at classes, at random social gatherings, etc. For instance, I met my current girlfriend during my first week at Amherst. We initially became friends just because we kept randomly bumping into each other over the course of my freshman year (we started dating later on).
Throughout the course of college, me and an extended circle of 15-20 friends would literally meet up three nights a week, and just hang out. Sometimes we went to random campus events, sometimes we went to the mall and saw a movie, other times we got together and walked to a bar (the town of Amherst is small, but it’s not that small), or oftentimes we might simply drink and socialize in my dorm’s common room. At the end of this past year, we went go-karting, visited an arcade, went bowling, went to an escape room (we totally failed at that lol), and even had a picnic, all in the course of our last month at college.
That said, if you want to go to college to party, I probably wouldn’t recommend Amherst. The college tore down the “social” dorms last year, and that’s where most of the raging parties used to happen. Now, parties tend to be more scattered (usually sports teams host a few in Jenkins/The Triangle), plus some official college parties that honestly aren’t very exciting. In other words, the party scene is really where you see the oft-touted divide between athletes and non-athletes at Amherst.
Frankly though, I never really had a problem with this. I don’t think Amherst is right for everyone, especially those who appreciate a thriving party scene, but Amherst was undoubtedly the right choice for me, as someone who wanted to be able to meet lots of people without having to constantly party/join a frat or whatever.
To answer the second part of your question, Amherst never felt too small to me. While you tend to see the same people over and over again, I personally found this to be a plus: it just made it a lot easier for me to make new friends in my freshman year, and to keep up with existing friends in subsequent years. And it’s not like you’ll ever meet everybody on campus-- when I was walking in the graduation ceremony last week, I realized that I still didn’t really know, like 2/3rds of my class. And this was a class of only 470 people!
2. Interpersonal competition: Let me state this clearly-- I have literally never seen interpersonal competition manifest itself in any form throughout the course of my studies at Amherst. It probably helps that almost no courses at Amherst are grade-capped, aka in most classes, it’s possible for every student to receive an A. The only exception is a few core classes, e.g. Intro to Econ (which mandated a B+ average in my freshman year). But even then, interpersonal competition hasn’t really been a thing that I’ve been aware of.
That said, the pre-med track here is difficult. People should be aware of this. I probably knew 25-30 pre-med students when I was a freshman, and by the time I was a senior, only 10-15 of them had finished the whole track. The difficulty with the pre-med track at Amherst isn’t intrapersonal competition, but rather the sheer academic rigor of the track itself. Amherst doesn’t have “weed-out” classes like what you might see at large public schools, but all science taught at the college is just… hard. To an extent, this is probably a good thing, because I know that med school definitely doesn’t get any easier. So most people realize by the end of their freshman year that they don’t want to do hard science for the next 11 years of their life, and they drop the track.
3. Food: Ok seriously, people need to stop complaining about the food at Val. The food has improved A LOT in the last 5 years, to the point that it has become solidly… average. Nothing to write home about, but also nothing to really complain about.
The main problem here is that the food at Amherst was really, really bad in the past, and now this historical memory continues to drive campus discourse on the subject, despite that fact that this discourse no longer reflects reality. For instance, I’ve been to the dining hall at Hamilton College, and the food there was probably worse than at Val! Yet people don’t really complain about the food at Hamilton, because there’s no historical memory of it. I’ve also been to the top-notch dining hall at Claremont McKenna/Pomona (which supposedly offers the best food of any U.S. liberal arts college other than Bowdoin), and while the food there is definitely better than at Val, it’s not light-years ahead as some people imply.
As a sidenote, I also think people really undersell the town of Amherst, when it comes to food. For instance, the Asian food and Middle Eastern food in town is phenomenal. I interned in Boston a few summers ago, and the Asian and Middle Eastern food in Boston was probably worse than at Amherst.