<p>I"m wondering why you need to choose between them at this point? Are you trying to go ED somewhere? If so, are you sure you’d really want to do that when you don’t have a strong, clear number one? To me, this looks like a good list as it is. I am not familiar with all of them, so I can’t say whether you need to add more safeties and matches though. (and of course, for some reason, you seem to want to narrow the list).</p>
<p>Or, perhaps you were just misleading us with the “vs.” in your title. Are you really just trying to see if they all fit your bill?</p>
<p>While I am familiar with several of these schools just from visiting during our search, i will comment only on Grinnell, where i have real knowledge as my son attends. It matches all your criteria. Yes, a lot of students drink but there are plenty who don’t, but the main thing is that it is very much a “come as you are” place so there is no pressure to fit into any one mold or way of being. </p>
<p>As to politics, if you were very conservative, it wouldn’t be a good fit, but middle of the road is fine. Many students are politically active, but many are not. There is definitely a strong prevailing tendency towards promoting social justice and equality. </p>
<p>As to the friendly, welcoming aspect: yes, yes, yes!! Wow. We are from the northeast and my son loves that when he walks in the streets of the town of Grinnell, strangers smile and say hello! The college itself is one of the more diverse among all LACs in the country, including one of the biggest percentage of international students. The college has a host family program with people who live in the town who act as surrogate families for these students during their tenure. </p>
<p>Grinnell also has a “self-governance” structure which, at its core, is about having the students be responsible to and for each other as members of a community. This really creates a certain kind of campus culture that bonds people. Not to say that there aren’t issues that come up, but that the students first look to each other to resolve them, rather than first running to the administration. With this structure, the students also have a very close interaction with the administration and serve on committees with faculty and administrators for a wide variety of purposes pertaining to running the college.</p>
<p>My son is definitely not a hippie! Nor is he a hipster! Just a very curious, kind person. If a student has some unusual interests or ways of expressing him / herself, then it is easy to feel comfortable there, but there is no pressure to be quirky or to fit into any type of mold. It is a very unpretentious, welcoming place.</p>